A Great PUA Prop for When You Get Her Back To Your Place
As I got better and better at approaching and opening sets, I began to slowly pull more girls back to my place. Unfortunately I used to blow a lot of great leads because I lacked a game plan for back at my place.
It would be going great in the bar, great during the car ride, and them BAM, we would walk into my house and I’d stumble. Either I would make things really uncomfortable by not having anything to say, or I would talk myself into “friend zone” trying to build up the courage to kiss her.
One of the things I learned through the PUA community is to always have a game plan for back at your house. Style says in his book, The Game, to have some funny video on your computer you want to show them, or a CD you want them to hear.
I think an even better and more flirtatious idea is to have gimmicks that open up a chance to move the conversation into a sexual tone. This lie detector test is great prop to propel escalation.
A couple years ago I bought this and I must say it is worth its weight in gold. When I got a girl back to my place, and the convo started running dry I would bust this out, and it was like instant truth or dare. I would strap her in and start asking basic questions. Soon I would get more sexual. Once you have set a sexual tone it is much easier to go in for the kiss than if you’re sitting around talking about your jobs.
Anyway, guys are always asking me for examples of PUA props. So here’s a great one.
Do girls leave you confused as to whether or not they like you?
Let's face it. Girl's don't make it easy for you. She will often send mixed signals leaving you unable to tell if she is being friendly or flirty. If you read her signals wrong you risk rejection and embarrassment. Or worse, you blow it with a girl who wanted to kiss you.
Here is a simple and innocent move that will instantly tell you if you're in the friend zone, or if she's waiting for you to kiss her.
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About Bobby Rio I'm Bobby Rio, one of the founders of TSB. I tend to write about what is on my mind so you'll find a mix of self development, social dynamics and dating articles/experiences. For a collection of some of my favorite articles check them out.