How to Calm Sexual Neediness
Too many guys jump into this seduction/PUA stuff swinging for the fences. Thats great, but if you’re a guy thats been sitting on the sidelines for years you’re going to need a little experience in the bedroom before you start fucking around with 9 and 10s. Remember “you only get one chance to make a first impression.”
Back in the day me and my friends would call it “practicing for the big game.” Every time we fucked a girl that was ugly or fat we would blow it off to “practice.” And it works. The more comfortable and confident you get in your sexual abilities the more natural it will be for you to act sexual around women.
So whats the best way to do this. If your less than experienced in the bedroom I recommend going out and getting your self a fuck buddy. I’m talking about a plain Jane, maybe a chunker with a cute face, some one with a little baggage… your goal here is not to fall in love.. your goal is get comfortable being sexual. This means getting comfortable touching girls, talking sexual to girls, escalating.
As much as your ego must hate the idea of slumming. Do it. And don’t feel bad about it. Your intention should be to give her as much sexual pleasure as possible. Nothing more. You don’t need to promise her flowers and diamonds. If your fucking a girl right, she won’t ask for those things. Use each other.
Whats great about a fuck buddy is that because you’re getting laid a couple nights a week you won’t be so needy and hungry when your out hunting. Women can smell neediness a mile away. They can look at you and know if you “get laid.” And women want guys who get laid.
If your wondering where to find these fuck buddies. They are all over. They are at bars. They are on Match, or Adult Friendfinder. You probably work with one of them.
One of my favorite teachers, Derek Vitalio, has just put out a real interesting audio program called The Seduction Archtype series. I am actually familiar with the idea of archtypes and it should actually be your goal to play the role of one of these archtypes. Check it out.
About Bobby Rio I'm Bobby Rio, one of the founders of TSB. I tend to write about what is on my mind so you'll find a mix of self development, social dynamics and dating articles/experiences. For a collection of some of my favorite articles check them out.