Bobby’s Little Dilemma
Okay, Here is the scenario… I don’t need the scum bag references so spare me. About 2 months ago I met a girl in my volley ball league. She’s cute, so of course I flirt with her. The flirting escalates, we go for lunch, we go to Happy Hour, I am the perfect gentleman, I am her dream guy..
She of course has no idea that I have a girl friend. It is a detail that always seems to slip my mind when we’re hanging out. But in my defence, other than flirting and some borderline sexual kino, I have not done anything with her. She is way to close to my social scene to risk it. (If you’re going to cheat boys, do it outside of your social circle)
Well, I’ve come to the conclusion that if something happens between us, she has to know up front that I have a girlfriend. …I’m not planning anything but you know 🙂 So we’re texting eachother back and forth last night and its getting damn near the point of inviting her over to break this god awful sexual tension. But I know I can’t let anything happen (and if it does she has to know I have a girlfriend)
I feel like I’ve dug myself in pretty deep… Any suggestions about breaking the news that I have a girl friend? Do I say it casually? Make a point to sit her down and confess? Fuck it… what she doesn’t know don’t hurt her?
I mean I can live without fucking her, really I can. At this point I just want to resolve this situation. I’ve been her fucking night in shining armor for 2 months and now I’ve got to crush her little heart. What’s the best way to do it?
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About Bobby Rio I'm Bobby Rio, one of the founders of TSB. I tend to write about what is on my mind so you'll find a mix of self development, social dynamics and dating articles/experiences. For a collection of some of my favorite articles check them out.