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The G-spot, Female Ejaculation, and How to Get Your Girl to Come


The other night I got a squirter!!!

orgasm face mFor years I’ve been dismissing the elusive female ejaculation as an urban legend. I either thought guys were making it up or the girl had peed in their bed and blamed it on orgasm. But the other night I experienced a Gusher first hand.

The girls I’ve been with have been very varied in their ability and frequency to orgasm. Some girls came every time, some never, some only during oral, others had to be on top, some needed manually stimulation… the only constant I experienced was an inability to get a girl to gush the way some friends described as “soaking the bed…need to change the sheets” wet.

It became a personal obsession of mine to make a girl gush. I tried every trick in the book, and have seen every orgasm face, heard every moan, felt my back clawed, lip bit… yet never had my bed wet.

The other night when the girl unleashed a stream it was like striking gold. I was so taken back that I smelled it a few times to make sure it wasn’t pee. Once I was certain it wasn’t urine I raised my hands in victory.

So what is the G-spot and how does it relate to female ejaculation?

I’ve had girls give me mixed opinions on whether or not the G-spot exists. I’ve come to realize one thing about the opinions of females regarding orgasms, g-spots, and female ejaculation: The girls that admit to masterbating regularly are like 10 times more likely to be coming from sex than the girls who don’t.

My last girlfriend told me when we started dating that she very rarely came from oral sex and never came from penetration. She also told me she never masturbated. My previous experience taught that girl’s need to figure out on their own what they like before they can fully be satisfied by someone else. So I bought her a vibrator and made her use it in front of me regularly. After about her third time using it she finally came. She used it a few more times making her self come each time. After that she started coming regularly from sex. She knew what spot she liked and made sure that spot was hit often during sex.

The best advice I can give a guy who can’t get his girl to orgasm is encourage her to masturbate. Let her do it in front of you… its a real turn on as well.

About Bobby Rio

I'm Bobby Rio, one of the founders of TSB. I tend to write about what is on my mind so you'll find a mix of self development, social dynamics and dating articles/experiences.  For a collection of some of my favorite articles check them out.

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  1. Honey

    March 27, 2008 at 10:52 pm

    Oh, Bobby, you’re so right!  I don’t use a vibrator every time my bf and I have sex, but a great deal of the time.  It’s equal fun to get myself started, take a sexy interlude, polish myself off, whatever…he’s the only guy who Ive done that with and also the best sex of my life.  Coincidence?  I think not!

    Honey’s last blog post..I Just Did A Kegel (FB part 2)

  2. MilfLover

    March 27, 2008 at 10:54 pm

    Checkout Steve Piccus at maybe he’ll send you an evaluation copy of White Tiger Tantra. I heard there is a gal on one of the CD’s that goes off like a geyser.

  3. Teddy Bear

    March 28, 2008 at 10:52 am

    lol its funny cuz I had a disscussion on this last weekend. me, 2 of my friends and these two girls were talking about this. us three were talking to one girl and I said every women can gush, just a lot haven’t. she obviously hasn’t and is arguing the fact so I ask this female walking around for her input and she has done it alot(shes a lesbian btw) and is very comfortable speaking on the topic. she told me that she had three different gfs that she got to gush. and yes masterbation has a lot todo with the O’s and rivers. its like when a male jerks off a lot he will come quicker, and its kinda the same with women. the more they masterbate and get to cumming quicker the quicker it comes with apartner. I’m sure every one knows where the g spot is. the quickest way to get a girl cumming is by direct stimulation of the g and clit at the same time. it takes some work but every girl can gush, some might be a waterfall while some its just a little stream.

    lol I was pissed off the first time it happened to me bobby. I thought she just pissed on me. and I feel like its a victory now when I get a girl to do it.

  4. javi_DC

    March 28, 2008 at 11:09 am

    The girls that admit to masterbating regularly are like 10 times more likely to be coming from sex than the girls who don’t.

    It makes sense. And this is totally going into a Day2 conversation, it’ll be a good way to calibrate the extraction to my place.

  5. Evil Woobie

    March 28, 2008 at 1:19 pm

    Gushing depends on how horny the girl is at the moment of cum. Some girls cum as a sort of built-up reflex to the rubbing, but not much mental activity, no gushing, just cumming. Your gusher must really be turned on and living out a fantasy.

    Masterbation helps in that a girl can sense that she’s going to cum and does nothing to stop it. Some girls get self conscious when the tingling sensation comes, like maybe they think they’re gonna pee or something, hence stopping the cum.

    Personally, grinding on the guy’s part makes me cum. Gush even. Use of weight secondarily. Some guys fuck like the gentlemen that they are, putting all their weight on their arms instead of on their pelvis.

    it;s funny that the vibrator being a part of my sexual sessions with my partner is usually his idea. it;s like having a tagteam partner. Anyway it turns him on more than it turns me on. 🙂

    Evil Woobie’s last blog post..An Interesting Cab Ride

  6. Seduction Chronicles

    March 28, 2008 at 1:44 pm

    I’m yet to experience the craziness that is the female ejaculation. Wow Bobby.

    Seduction Chronicles’s last blog post..Sinn (Seduction Masters Interview)

  7. Odin

    March 28, 2008 at 2:41 pm

    Bobby you found the holy grail.

    Watching her masturbate is an interesting idea, see over here we’re quite reserved about this sort of thing. Well, ish.

  8. Zeo`

    March 28, 2008 at 5:53 pm

    Wait, so what exactly is it that comes out? Like male cum is semen but wtf is girl cum?

  9. Teddy Bear

    March 28, 2008 at 5:58 pm

    idk how to explain it zeo but its not thick like male cum, look up some porn wit it<-free and like youtube

    Teddy Bear’s last blog post..The G-spot, Female Ejaculation, and How to Get Your Girl to Come

  10. Evil Woobie

    March 28, 2008 at 8:04 pm

    more like real flower sap… sticky but not thick… clear and fragrant.

    Evil Woobie’s last blog post..An Interesting Cab Ride

  11. Zeo

    March 28, 2008 at 10:37 pm

    haha alright. Doesn’t seem to me like it has a real purpose though like male cum. If u know what I mean LOL.

  12. MilfLover

    March 29, 2008 at 1:16 am

  13. Zeo

    March 29, 2008 at 10:38 am

    ha, thnx man kinda clears it up for me, lol

  14. eddy

    March 29, 2008 at 1:56 pm

    Ive had a few conversations with people on this site before regarding an ebook called the sex god method – I think this is an invaluable tool which makes you realise the real underlying cause for a womens orgasm let alone squirters – The book is based on the premise that its the mind set and physcology involved as apposed to techiques etc. that makes sex great for women – things like a women feeling dominated by you in bed. DEVI D for domination, E emotion, V variety, I immersion (the degree to which you are in the moment and how consumed you are by it. I highly recommend reading this – kinda like a light bulb going in your head all of a sudden

  15. retodded

    March 29, 2008 at 8:59 pm

    HAHA, I had my first one a few weeks ago 2. I had no idea what happend i thought she pissed all over my hand. I had no idea so much would come out i felt like i was swimming in pussy juice. 

  16. DirkDiggler9000

    April 14, 2008 at 8:00 pm

    I think my g-friend is a squirter but she is embarrassed by it and never does it. She always says she’s got to pee REALLY bad whenever we have sex or i’m giving her oral. I’m not really into that but I don’t mind hehe.

  17. Shy

    October 9, 2008 at 2:19 am

    Lol, guys if eva u wana make ur girl gush, just stick ur finger gently into her ass befor cuming. Simple. He he he

  18. J

    April 26, 2009 at 9:35 am

    I think my wife Can be a squirter I have seen alittle leak out of her with out even cumming. But Every time she gets real worked up from working her g-spot You can feel her g spot almost become hard she cant cum. WIth or with out clit stimulation. I can’t tell if she dosn’t find it sexy or what. she says half the time she becomes too sensitive. what can i do. She never masturbates I have bought her toys i have made cast of myself nothing will make her comfortable with her touching her self.
    The sex is good but I want to make it mind blowing! any thoughts on encouragement or tecniques i may need a thicker lube? but then she compares it to an exam.
    Any way just another frustrated husband trying to make work

  19. shady

    October 16, 2011 at 4:55 pm

    i dnt realy get..i fingerd my girl..she got realy wet…bt she didnt cum even afta penetration…am i doin sumtin wrong.or wat shud i do

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