Play or Be Played
So I was at my girlfriends apartment the other night, and while she was in the bathroom I was scanning her bookshelf to see if there was anything interesting.
And I find this book Play or Be Played.
The book was written by author, Tariq Nasheed, who also penned the classic book The Art of Macking.
Even though my book shelf is filled with books on “how to seduce women” I feel oddly…played.
The funniest thing about the book is it was written with a bit of an urban appeal. Which makes it funnier that the innocent little girl I’m dating is taking advice such as “what it takes to get with a baller,” “ways to spot a scrub,” and “Are you a hoochie? Take the chicken head test.”
Of course I put the book in my pocket and took it home with me. I figured I would do quick review of it here for you guys and girls.
Here is a list of the 10 main rules Tariq lays out for women to follow… let me know what you think.
Rule 1: A man does not have to like you to have sex with you.
Rule 2: A female’s ability to attract attention will get a man, but what a female does to receive appreciation will keep a man.
Rule 3: When a man’s non verbal language tells you what he’s about, you better accept it.
Rule 4: The way to start off a relationship is the way you will end a relationship.
Rule 5: If a man agrees to everything you say, no matter how far fetched or unusual it is, he just wants to have sex with you.
Rule 6 All man love hoes.Just not as girlfriends or wives.
Rule 7: When a man cheats, 80% of the time it has nothing to do with you.
Rule 8: Never let a relationship monopolize your whole identity.
Rule 9: Accumulating positive experiences leads to options, and accumulating negative experiences leads to baggage.
Rule 10: The people you date will usually be a reflection of you, and who you are mentally and socially.
Do girls leave you confused as to whether or not they like you?
Let's face it. Girl's don't make it easy for you. She will often send mixed signals leaving you unable to tell if she is being friendly or flirty. If you read her signals wrong you risk rejection and embarrassment. Or worse, you blow it with a girl who wanted to kiss you.
Here is a simple and innocent move that will instantly tell you if you're in the friend zone, or if she's waiting for you to kiss her.
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About Bobby Rio I'm Bobby Rio, one of the founders of TSB. I tend to write about what is on my mind so you'll find a mix of self development, social dynamics and dating articles/experiences. For a collection of some of my favorite articles check them out.