Are You On A One Way Train To Creepyville?
“I can’t talk to her. She’ll just think I’m a creep.”
Does that voice sound like anyone you know? It sounds to me a LOT like the little green demon voice in the back of my big dumb head.
Maybe it’s just me. Maybe you’ve NEVER thought that. Maybe you always know just what to say and aren’t at all worried that if you say or do the wrong thing she’ll just shoot you out of the sky like a hunter takes down a goose.
Boom! Splash. Dead.
Let me tell you, this is a real fear. This is a real thing. One thing we have to drill over and over again in our hands-on real world workshops like â€œPowerful Sexual Presenceâ€ is that you MUST know what things guys do that tell girls, loud and clear, one message that you can’t ever ever argue your way out of.
“Seems like a nice guy, but he’s creepy. NEXT!”
We call it the Fast Train to Creepyville. It’s an express with no return. Once you’ve done the wrong thing or said something too stupid, she’s never giving you a chance.
Sucks, doesn’t it? It’s unfair, isn’t it? You wish she’d just give you a chance, and be a little more forgiving, doncha? Doncha? DONCHA!?!
Well, you can wish in one hand and shit in the other and see which fills up first, hoss. The way the real world works is that hotties will never ever give a guy a chance, fair or not, if he comes off as creepy.
Now you may already know that, and that’s what’s holding you back. But I’ve got a little secret for you that will help you fix it. See, most men don’t know women like I do, and have no idea what the hell this is all about. But there’s a secret about women they will never tell you that tells you all you need to know about why it is so frickin’ CRITICAL to never come off creepy if you want great women in your life.
Every hottie has had a stalker.
Yes, I mean all of them. Every single one. And if you knew how to talk to them like I do, you’d hear some fucking horror stories.
I once spent an evening with this Albanian pharma rep from Tampa (in case you didn’t know, “Albanian”, “pharma rep” and “from Tampa” are all pretty much just different words for “ungodly hot.”). She was a sweetheart as well as a hottie and a super-duper flirt.
But we got deeper than just flirting. We really connected, and she confessed to me that she had her first stalker at 12.
Imagine that. You’re 12 years old. You’re just a kid. And someone starts staring at you when they think you aren’t looking. They follow you, trying not to be seen, but you always catch them. If they do talk to you, it’s always weird and uncomfortable. You can tell they want something, but won’t tell you what. A sick feeling in your stomach starts up. You get afraid to leave the house.
Maybe they start calling all the time. Maybe they write you weird letters. Maybe they get angry at you, and threaten you.
Did I mention they are a lot bigger than you, and you can’t explain it to anyone. Did I mention if you do tell someone about this, they will just blame you for bringing it on yourself, and tell you that you should have known better than to encourage this?
Think you’d be a little scared?
If it were me, I’d be shitting myself with fear every day.
If you think you know women, you don’t know a goddamn thing till you know what it feels like to have someone invade your life and rip away your privacy.
I’ve been stalked. And it was the scariest thing that has ever happened to me. It just makes you feel like anything bad can happen at ANY TIME.
So now imagine you’ve had this happen. Maybe once in high school, a few times in college. Each time it seemed like a guy was nice enough, but then started getting weirder and weirder, and doing things that just scared you, and you couldn’t do anything to make him stop.
Do you think you’d get a LOT more careful about the kind of guys you gave a chance to? Think you’d be really on the look out for any little tell, any behavior that reminded you of the guys who stalked you?
Do you think you’d really take a chance on a guy who didn’t even realize he was creepy?
Women need to filter out creepy guys not because they want the best husbands or the coolest dude or the richest Richie Rich in town.
They do it to save their lives.
And that, my friend, is why you NEED to learn how to make sure you never come off as creepy to women. If you don’t know now, you are missing out on great girls every single day. But once you do know, and even better, once you can spot it in other guys, women trust you and open up to you and give you a chance no matter WHAT else other guys have to offer.
Even worse, if you know some “pickup” theory but find it isn’t working for you, it’s because it’s making girls think YOU are the stalker.
Imagine that? You got in this just to get a little happier with women, and it’s turning you into everything you hate. Instead of making women want to be with you, it’s making them run in fear.
There’s a way to change everything starting today. The most important thing you can do is make sure you know what you are saying with your body. If you don’t know how to be in your body and know how to speak with it, you are probably saying the wrong things.
If you don’t know the secrets of Body Language, you are probably telling her “be afraid. be very afraid.”
Ever had a woman tell you she just wanted to be friends, or moved away as you moved closer? The problem was not with your words. It’s with your body. And you can fix it now with my one-hour podclass, “Movie Star Body Language.” It’s a real home-training course that will give you the fundamentals to walk, talk, and look like the man you want to be.
You want the advantage that gets guys the very best women? This is it. Work with me. Invest in yourself by investing in your real-world education, and make sure that the next time that Fast Train to Creepyville goes by, you aren’t on it.
You are staying right where you want to be, in Studsville, where all the great girls are.
Wishing you peace, love, and classic frickin women,
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About Sean Messenger Sean Messenger former head instructor for Pickup101, who left the company in 2007, for "philosophical reasons" to form LVO3. LVO3 sole purpose is to move guys beyond the game and into what Sean calls Higher Game. Higher Game isn't some new angle or emphasis on one area of pickup. It's not a rehash of the same old things. This is about being real, genuine and authentic. About being you, not some fake, carefully choreographed and rehearsed pickup artist. Whatever you do to attract her in the first place, you have to keep doing for the duration of the relationship to keep her attracted. Eventually you will find a woman you want to be real with, what do you do when you attracted her by being fake? Forever is a long time to be something you are not. There is another way, a better way... http://www.lvo3.com/home/ucp.html