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Lame American Girls


Getting A Broad Abroad

Here’s some entertainment from my time in South America early this year. I think it shows the difference between Latin women and American women quite well.

Lame American girl

South American girls will be very lukewarm to you in the first 30 minutes to an hour. But once they decide they like you and they want to fuck you, they’re so on board, it’s almost creepy. No resistance, super affectionate, very warm, even after the sex they call you all the time and want to see you all the time. It’s nice in a lot of ways. You put in extra work up front and then don’t have to worry.

It’s the opposite of American chicks, who will decide to make out with you after two minutes, flirt, talk a big game, and then you go to bring her home and she’s like… “oh, well my friends are going to this club, and I don’t know…” and it turns out she just wanted a bunch of attention and was a scared little girl the whole time.

(I’m not bitter, I swear.)

When It All Changed

So one night, my friend and I threw a house party , and a few American girls showed up. This one OK-looking girl shows up. She immediately proceeds to get completely wasted on all of my booze, and then starts mouth-raping me in the kitchen. So I’m figuring, whatever, she’s there… my bed’s there… let’s get this over with and if I’m quick I can still hit the club (it was only like 2AM at this point; early for Argentina).

So I shove her into my room, onto my bed, start fingering her, everything off but her panties… and… and… she starts head-turning me. Pushing me off her. “What are you doing?”

I couldn’t believe it. W…T…F?

I’m immediately turned off. I lose my hard-on. (Remember, this girl was average looking, and that was probably my beer-goggles being generous). So she says, “Why are you stopping?”

I reply, “I’m going to a club, apparently,” and get up and start getting dressed.

So she starts flipping her shit and getting pissed off, starts BLAMING ME for not being aggressive enough with her – explaining to me that I’m “supposed” to keep trying even though she’s telling me to stop and that once I try enough, that’s when she’ll do it, even though she wanted to the whole time anyway.

I silently listened to this ridiculous 5-minute convoluted mess she called an explanation – while she’s in her underwear on my bed, mind you. Sex drive is plummeting. I told her that she was free to fall on my dick when I got back from the club and passed out. She didn’t appreciate that comment very much. But she still awkwardly slept naked in my bed for the rest of the night … despite NOT wanting to have sex.

Word of advice to single American guys: TRAVEL.

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About Mark Manson

Mark Manson is a writer and dating coach from Boston. He spends most of his time abroad visiting exotic places and fornicating with exotic women. He's also the creator of the acclaimed Mark Manson website.

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  1. dude

    November 16, 2010 at 12:32 pm

    not all american girls are lame.. but enough to give the whole bunch a bad rep.

  2. 3peet

    November 16, 2010 at 3:27 pm

    3 time I have heard this story… either its crazy common or you stole it

    • Bobby Rio

      November 16, 2010 at 6:27 pm

      Mark (the author) has written similiar post over on his old blog entropy pua…
      might have heard it there.

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