Being ‘Nice’ In Bed Is MEAN To Your Girl!
It always amazes me at just how many men think that the key to giving a woman great sex is to just be NICE in the bedroom. I’m talking about asking her what she wants, asking her how you are doing, asking her if she’s “there” yet, etc, etc, etc. Well fellas, have I got some news for you…
No sir! We don’t want a guy who asks us what to do and takes orders like a puppy. We want a man who isn’t afraid to pin us down and throw us around and literally ROCK our worlds! Now, I’m not saying you should be a “jerk” when you are having sex I but I DO mean that you need to be authoritative and IN CHARGE!
This definitely extends to your dating and relationship life as well, but for the purpose of RAPID SEXUAL IMPROVEMENT. I want to show you right now how to use authority in the bedroom and LEAD your girl to stronger orgasms! So let’s get right into it…
First of all, WHAT being authoritative in the bedroom REALLY is can be explained very simply: It’s all about you being a MAN! You see, when you start asking questions and catering to your woman, her sexual attraction towards you INSTANTLY SHUTS OFF.
I don’t mean to get too ” biological” on you, but think about this. We woman are naturally drawn to men who are leaders and protectors.
In caveman days, woman would go after the strongest man, the LEADER of the tribe, aka the guy who would hunt down the prey and clobber any enemies. I know, I know, your mother and your sister tell you you should be nice to women. And you should! But in the bedroom, what we REALLY want is the same guy that in the caveman days would be leading the hunt =)
We want you to take charge and lead US by:
– Telling us how turned on you are
– Doing us HARD! (there, I said it!)
– Using positions in which you have TOTAL CONTROL! Such as “doggy style” (which is often our favorite position… we love it because we feel like we are being “taken”!)
– Having us go down on you and be there for YOUR pleasure!
I’m in no way saying make your girl do anything she (or you) isn’t comfortable with.
But what I AM saying is your girl is going to be most turned on when you:
– Do not ask what position to use and INSTEAD grab and her put her into it!
– Lightly pull her hair during doggy style and give her ass a little slap =) Talk dirty on occasion and ravish her – and yes tell her what panties to wear!
– Set up romantic evenings that you plan WITHOUT asking her what she wants (Here’s a hint: “Romance” is her feeling that YOU know what she wants EVEN BETTER than she does.)
The whole point of this note is to open your eyes that when you stop being “nice” to your girl in bed, and start taking authority and taking CONTROL, you will be pleasantly surprised by how much your girl likes it. AND how much easier it is for her to have intense, mind-blowing orgasms! Once you start, don’t be surprised if SHE takes it the next level by telling you to do her harder, or being COMPLETELY submissive to you and even orgasming on your command.
I hope this note has opened your eyes a little bit… but the next step is for you to go and TRY THIS STUFF OUT! You won’t know just how powerful it is until you start doing it!
Of course, if you want to see ALL of the specific tips and tricks for taking control of your girl’s sexual experience, and giving her more orgasms than she can even hope to count, then you owe it to yourself to check out the 2 Girls Teach Sex DVD program. In it, you’ll WATCH exactly how to be dominant in bed… from the exact words to say, the techniques and positions to use, the psychological tricks that make her cum even HARDER, and how to get sex exactly as YOU want it and as OFTEN as you want.
It’s all in here, and you’ll master the secrets the same day you watch the DVDs and use them the same night! Go here to get your copy now, and become the type of lover most women only DREAM about (trust me, I know =)!
About Shawna Lenee Shawnee Lee is a pornographic model and actress.