When You Come Before She Does
Put yourself in a woman’s shoes for a minute. You’re getting it on and really getting into it, you’re about to reach your peak, and then… your man orgasms a moment too early, then flops off you and starts snoring within seconds, leaving you frustrated without release. Perhaps now you can understand why women get so angry when this happens. Here’s what you can do to prevent her from murdering you when you come too soon.
That old saying is true when it comes to your love life as well as your health. If you refrain from coming too soon, you won’t have the problem of her being unsatisfied and itching for more, whilst you’re ready for a snooze. Yes, controlling your body is easier said than done, but practice makes perfect. Keep in mind that it’s better to tell her that you need to stop for a minute to give yourself a bit more time, rather than risk coming too early.
I once read some misguided sex advice that said that while men have the goal of coming during intercourse, women do not, and they are happy to just enjoy the ride even if they do not orgasm. What a load of rubbish! While sex for the purposes of reproduction doesn’t require the female to come, sex for recreation is another matter entirely. Of course she wants to orgasm- she has the very same desire for release that you do. While a woman should not rely solely on the man for her pleasure, and should do what she need to do to reach orgasm, her needs should certainly not be disregarded whilst you think only of your own needs. Don’t just go at your own pace, and pay attention to the cues she’s giving you, because if it’s not a pleasurable experience for her then she is not going to want to sleep with you again. If you’ve been going for a while and she’s not getting into it, ask her what would make it better for her.
You don’t have to last two hours to ensure she orgasms. If she’s enjoying herself, then it doesn’t have to take long at all. Just as you would get bored with going at it for hours without coming, so will she. It’s more about technique than time.
Despite what your sex education from porn films would have you believe, the fun doesn’t have to stop once the man ejaculates all over his partner. If she’s still not satisfied, don’t stop until she is! You don’t have to put yourself through the difficulties of attempting to use your now flaccid member. Instead, give her digital or oral pleasure, until she is done as well. If your body is up to the challenge, tease her physically and with words until you’re ready to have sex with her again and it will be a better experience for both of you.
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About Natasha Abrahams Natasha Abrahams is a writer and journalism student from Melbourne, Australia. When she is not busy with being a principal writer on Weekendnotes or skipping lectures, she can be found emptying her wallet at the nearest shopping centre. You can read more from Natasha at: http://mensstyleandfashion.com/