Women’s Five Most Common Complaints About Men
What is she saying behind your back? Whether you’re casually seeing each other or are super serious, you can bet she has unresolved qualms if you’re guilty of any of these behaviors.
Women hate it when their significant other can’t be bothered trying to make conversation with the most important people, such as close friends and immediate family. If she’s been telling her friends about how fantastic you are, but you reveal yourself to be most unsociable when you finally meet them, her friends will question her judgment. You don’t need to become instant best friends with the important people in her life, but you do need to make an effort to talk to them when the situation calls for it. This is especially important if you’re serious about her, but even if not, she will still get annoyed if you are unpleasant to her friends and family.
She’s not your maid; she doesn’t want to pick up after you. She doesn’t want to turn up to your place only to discover you’re still in pajamas, have dirty dishes everywhere, and haven’t bothered to neaten up before her arrival. It’s a double whammy for her, because it shows you don’t care about impressing her, and it’s disgusting to boot. This is closely linked to the problem of getting so comfortable with her that you don’t bother to make an effort for her anymore. Whether you’ve been together for one day or five years, you should still maintain some standards of hygiene.
If there’s a problem in the bedroom, you can be sure that she will complain about it behind your back. Women hate it when men don’t bother about anything other than their own needs in the bedroom. This doesn’t mean you need to put on a porn star performance and go for hours at a time. Most women are fine with the situation if you finish before she does, as long as you don’t immediately roll over and go to sleep. You need to make sure she finishes as well!
A guy who is closed off is not good relationship or even fling material. Women want someone who is able to talk. You can’t disappear and not talk to her after a fight, and then come back and expect the problem to go away. Not communicating is one of the top complaints of women.
Even if you’re happily coupled up, it’s inevitable that a little flirting will happen now and then. You’re kidding yourself if you think she doesn’t do it either. However, it’s only polite to never flirt in front of your partner. She doesn’t want to witness you chatting up the waitress or ogling a girl on the street. She also doesn’t want to hear about any flirtation that may have happened when she wasn’t around. Obviously some appreciation of the opposite sex is going to happen, but don’t flaunt it. It’s embarrassing and maybe even hurtful for her.
About Natasha Abrahams Natasha Abrahams is a writer and journalism student from Melbourne, Australia. When she is not busy with being a principal writer on Weekendnotes or skipping lectures, she can be found emptying her wallet at the nearest shopping centre. You can read more from Natasha at: http://mensstyleandfashion.com/