What Every Woman Wishes Her Lover Knew
It’s awkward for women to tell you what they want in the bedroom- but they certainly share their stories with their girlfriends. Here’s what women complain that they wish their lovers knew, but are too embarrassed to tell them.
You found a winning move in the bedroom, and since it got such a good reaction the first time, you’re going to continue doing it every time. No woman wants a one-trick pony. She will soon get bored of your limited repertoire. You don’t need to be having porn-star sex, but don’t follow the same recipe every time.
You can’t rush to the main event straight away. Many women complain that their partner is lacking in foreplay, or expect it to consist only of her pleasuring him with nothing in return. Some girls take a long time to really get in the mood. This is also a tricky subject to talk about- she doesn’t want you to feel bad about your bedroom prowess. Rather than expect her to tell you if she needs more time to warm up, ask her what she would like you to do.
Unless you’re in love, you don’t need to act like it. Women in relationships complain when their partners don’t treat them romantically in the bedroom, but don’t take that into consideration for a casual affair. Women think it’s weird when the guy they’ve taken home from the club wants to gaze into their eyes during the act. Even if you’re coupled up, it doesn’t need to be romantic every time.
You’re meant to pay attention to the entire body, not just one part of it. If you give some love to other erogenous zones such as her neck, it will be much more memorable than just feeling her up. Women agree that great lovers are those who give attention to the lesser-known sensitive parts of the body.
Sex is not a silent movie. If you like what she’s doing, tell her so. Not only will this make the experience better for you as she learns what you enjoy, but she will also be excited to hear you say it. At the very least, make some sounds if not words. Women complain that non-responsive men give them nothing to work with.
It’s not you, it’s her. More specifically, it’s her hair. If she’s just been on a trip to the hairdresser, she doesn’t want you to ruin her hair. She may start to fool around with you, but as soon as you want to go on top, her thoughts will go to her hair and she’ll suddenly seem disinterested. It sounds trivial, but be mindful of what position you choose when her hair is looking good.
Do girls leave you confused as to whether or not they like you?
Let's face it. Girl's don't make it easy for you. She will often send mixed signals leaving you unable to tell if she is being friendly or flirty. If you read her signals wrong you risk rejection and embarrassment. Or worse, you blow it with a girl who wanted to kiss you.
Here is a simple and innocent move that will instantly tell you if you're in the friend zone, or if she's waiting for you to kiss her.
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About Natasha Abrahams Natasha Abrahams is a writer and journalism student from Melbourne, Australia. When she is not busy with being a principal writer on Weekendnotes or skipping lectures, she can be found emptying her wallet at the nearest shopping centre. You can read more from Natasha at: http://mensstyleandfashion.com/