How to Talk to Women In Class
You’ve spotted a cutie in your class, but you do not know how to start a conversation with her without seeming awkward. Actually, being awkward should be the last of your worries. You have multiple chances to talk to her so your awkwardness will be forgiven. What you should really worry about is not coming across as annoying.
You are in the same class, so you have an instant conversation starter. You do not need to have an original, witty opener when talking to her for the first time. It can be as simple as talking about the content of the class, or asking how she’s going with the assignments, or commenting on the tutor’s annoying habits. The key point to remember here is to make the conversation progress away from your classwork at some point. This does not have to happen the first time you talk to her. Even if you have a boring conversation the first time, you will be a friendly face that she will talk to next time.
Above all, do not be annoying to the girl you are trying to talk to. You may be there to pick up, but she is there to learn. If you will not stop talking when she is trying to concentrate, she will quickly become annoyed at you, whether she finds you attractive or not. Be mindful of when she is actually doing her work. A good time to talk to her is before or after class, or when you are awaiting instructions. It comes across as weird if your very first interaction with her is to whisper something at her while she is trying to listen to what’s going on.
Try to take your interaction with her outside the classroom. After you have talked to her a couple of times, you could suggest that you get together for a study session. This is a good way to stay in touch after your class with her ends for the term, as exam revision is the perfect excuse to meet up. If she agrees, you still do not know if she is interested in you. She may just be interested in getting your revision notes. The advantage of a study date, however, is that it is free. If it turns out she is not interested, you did not lose anything except time. Make sure to take a break from your study session to get coffee with her- this will give you the chance to chat and get to know each other.
When she dodges your advances after a few weeks of talking to her in class, it is not because she has put you in the friend zone. It is probably because she never liked you. You are not even in the friend zone yet, but she is just being polite since you are in the same class. Remember, your goal when talking to a girl in class is to make friends with her first. Even if she never develops an interest in you, she may introduce you to female friends of hers.
About Natasha Abrahams Natasha Abrahams is a writer and journalism student from Melbourne, Australia. When she is not busy with being a principal writer on Weekendnotes or skipping lectures, she can be found emptying her wallet at the nearest shopping centre. You can read more from Natasha at: http://mensstyleandfashion.com/