#1 Mistake Preventing You From Creating a “Sexual Vibe”
Today I want to talk about the importance of creating a “sexual vibe” with a girl QUICKLY.
I put the quickly in capital letters for a reason.
Too many guys think “first, I’m going to show her what a nice, funny, interesting guy I am…”
…THEN I’ll try to create some sexual attraction.
WRONG WRONG WRONG
Because when a girl meets you she immediately tries to place you in one of four categories:
1. Creep (she’s just not into you, and wants to get away from you as quickly as she can.)
2. Potential friend (she’s thinking “Oh, he’s nice, he’s friendly. I don’t mind talking to him.”)
3. Potential Boyfriend (“this guy has boyfriend potential”)’
4. Potential Lover (“I’m getting horny… I can imagine having sex with guy. I’m feeling a weird desire I don’t usually feel this soon.)
Here is where most guys mess up.
You present yourself as “boyfriend material.”
It seems logical right?
I’ll show her all these great qualities I have and she’ll think “he’d make a great boyfriend.”
– oh, he likes to travel
– oh, we both like to do yoga cool
– oh, he’s got a great job
– oh, we have a similar sense of humor
Now, here’s the giant flaw in that strategy.
None of that makes her want to sleep with you.
And a girl will only make you her boyfriend if she wants to sleep with you.
(sorry, no way around that)
… If she doesn’t want to sleep with you, then you get placed in the “friend” category.
And THIS right here is why so many guys continually get placed in the friend zone.
Because they TRY FOR the boyfriend zone.
Here’s the kicker…
When a girl thinks “It would be fun to have sex with this guy… even though I don’t see boyfriend potential from him…”
THAT is the guy who she usually winds up dating. The guy she was just planning on sleeping with.
Potential Lover First.
Potential Boyfriend Second.
Now, there are certain things you can do to “steer” a conversation with a girl into “potential lover” zone…
…and the sooner the better.
How do you do it?
The important thing about these three steps is that you MUST (let me repeat that for added emphasis)…
You M.U.S.T. do them in this exact order.
If you do it wrong, you’ll be placed in the creep zone.
If you follow these three steps, you’ll easily transition things towards sex.
A lot of guys go for that potential boyfriend, they don’t make their move quick enough, and next thing you know they’re in the friend zone.
So, you want to go for potential love right off the bat. In this guide, I’m going to show you exactly how to do this – step-by-step.
Do girls leave you confused as to whether or not they like you?
Let's face it. Girl's don't make it easy for you. She will often send mixed signals leaving you unable to tell if she is being friendly or flirty. If you read her signals wrong you risk rejection and embarrassment. Or worse, you blow it with a girl who wanted to kiss you.
Here is a simple and innocent move that will instantly tell you if you're in the friend zone, or if she's waiting for you to kiss her.
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About Bobby Rio I'm Bobby Rio, one of the founders of TSB. I tend to write about what is on my mind so you'll find a mix of self development, social dynamics and dating articles/experiences. For a collection of some of my favorite articles check them out.