Seemingly Innocent Erogenous Zones You Shouldn’t Be Ignoring
Women love foreplay. Sure there will be some outliers here and there that don’t fit the traditionally mold, but for the most part women love to get heated up gradually and tantalizingly. The problem is that a lot of guys overlook just how to do that, but the truth is that it’s pretty easy to turn her on if you’re focusing on the right body parts. Here are some seemingly innocent areas of the body that are actually major hot spots.
Are your feet ticklish? Her’s probably are. The feet or one of the most ticklish places on the body and whatever reason that can translate into a little sexual feeling. This doesn’t mean you need to get all intense and foot massager her, which can be a little awkward depending on the situation, but don’t shy away from lightly brushing her toes from time to time when you’re watching TV on the couch.
Men generally have shorter hair than women and might not realize how sensitive the scalp can be with those long locks hanging around. The scalp is full of nerve endings, so gently pulling on small sections of her hair creates a lot of sensations. You might be familiar with the relaxing sensation you get when someone is cutting your hair, or any chills you’ve felt down your neck in a moment of fright. Longer hair makes it even easier to ignite those feelings which in the right situation can feel arousing.
Yeah yeah, you kiss her plenty. But how much time are you spending putting specific attention on her lips? Focusing on the lips without diving all the way in is a super sexy move that’s going to tease her in the right way. Gentle closed mouth pressure or fluttering can be deceptively sexy. Biting, licking, and breathing work well too. Keep the fun going for a while by pulling back when she goes in for the make out and teasing her a little while longer.
The inner thighs are so close to the prize that they can get skipped over during the foreplay process, but this is a mistake. Try very gently grazing her thighs while you’re kissing, and spend some time gently kissing or nibbling them when you’re preparing to go down on her. It’s a highly sensitive area, and you’re going to drive her crazy lighting up those nerves and going from thigh to thigh while skipping over her lady bits.
It’s sort of a random area that gets lost between the hands and arms, but the wrists are another super sensitive body part. Casual kisses on the area can both be a little tantalizing and also it’s a super cute move because it’s so specific. Girls like to feel specific. This is such as easy place on the body to play with in a public setting without getting too PDA as well. Hold her hand and give her wrist some light strokes to let her know your intentions aren’t totally innocent.
Do girls leave you confused as to whether or not they like you?
Let's face it. Girl's don't make it easy for you. She will often send mixed signals leaving you unable to tell if she is being friendly or flirty. If you read her signals wrong you risk rejection and embarrassment. Or worse, you blow it with a girl who wanted to kiss you.
Here is a simple and innocent move that will instantly tell you if you're in the friend zone, or if she's waiting for you to kiss her.
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About Kate Ferguson Kate Fergus is a Los Angeles local and freelance writer for a variety of blogs and online magazines. When she's not writing, the UC Davis graduate is focused on pursuits of the entertainment industry, spin class, and hot sauce.