Small Gestures that Make a Big Impact On Her
Not every day of a relationship calls for some grand gesture of romantic behavior, but that doesn’t mean the small ones should be brushed to the side. In fact sometimes it’s the smallest things that can have the biggest impact her, as long as they’re personal and thoughtful. Start incorporating these into the every day and watch her melt.
It doesn’t really matter what you’re surprising her with, but the element of surprise will keep her on her toes and never bored. Predictable isn’t very romantic for some reason. Surprise her with weekend plans or surprise her extra ketchup packets, just doing something out of nowhere has a very cute feeling to a girl.
If your girl crosses your mind when you’re not with her, by all means let her know. It might seem like a given that you daydream about her from time to time but it isn’t. Even receiving an emoji blowing a kiss will make her smile when she gets your text at work. Forward her emails that might interest her so you can stay connected even when you’re doing very different things.
She might be nice all the time so you don’t even think about how supportive she really is, but thanking her for the smaller things will make her feel like you really notice it and appreciate it all the time. The fact that you noticed that she washed your gym clothes will make her feel good about doing it, which is a win-win for everyone involved. She will also be more inclined to notice the little things that you do and thank you for
It’s not that she needs to be taken care of, but she certainly won’t mind you going out of your way to make her feel taken care of anyway. Get her some vitamin C when she feels a cold coming on or set the TV to record a show you heard you talking about. Even the most independant woman will swoon a little when she doesn’t ask for help but she gets it anyway.
Remembering your girl’s preferences is awesome, but it’s even sweeter when you can find ways to expand upon them. Take her to a different Mexican food restaurant if she’s obsessed with the neighborhood one, ask around for some book recommendations based on her current favorite, or start getting a different bottle of wine each week so she do her own tastings.
When you want to try something new but you would prefer to do it with her by your side, that is the cutest thing ever. Ask her to be your sous chef while you roll sushi for the first time or go with you to that yoga class you’ve sort of wanted to try. If you really enjoy spending time together then most things will be more fun when you do them together.
About Kate Ferguson Kate Fergus is a Los Angeles local and freelance writer for a variety of blogs and online magazines. When she's not writing, the UC Davis graduate is focused on pursuits of the entertainment industry, spin class, and hot sauce.