My 2 Lists I Always Tell People to Make
It is not a sunny day here, it’s actually raining really hard, which is great for me since I’m only happy when it rains 🙂
Anyway, For years and years and year I’ve been telling guys who don’t know what to say to women to sit down and make a couple of lists.
The first is a list of 10 things you like talking about. This is pretty simple and should be a list of things that you actually enjoy talking to people about. They don’t have to be the most interesting subjects in the world! But you should actually like talking about them.
The second is a list of 10 things women are interested in that you could learn/talk more about with girls.
In my opinion these two list form the core of what you should be talking about. So since I’ve been taking a break from pickup for a lil while I decided I would sit down and actually do these exercises so that I could post them here to show you how easy it is and how much you can learn from making these lists.
Here’s my list of things I LIKE talking about? (I couldn’t stop at 10)
10 Things I like Talking About:
1. Reality TV
3. My thoughts and philosophy on life
5. My goals and ambitions
9. Shit talking people
10. Family stories
11. Lame people
13. Fun things to do in the city
14. Living in different places
16. Differences BTW people
17. Why girls are better than guys.
And those are just things I like talking about that I would talk to almost anyone about regardless of whether they were a hot girl or not.
10 Things Girls Like I could Talk/Learn More About:
3. Music: Festivals, use to qualify
5. Luxury Items
6. Small Dogs
9. Celeb Gossip
This list was interesting as well, because I do yoga 2-3 x a week and just need to remember to bring that up when I talk to girls, I know a lot about fashion and again just don’t talk about it with girls, I’ve been actively trying to get more into new music and stay in touch with what’s new musically, and for the 7th year in a row I’ll say I’m going to take a dance class and not actually do it.
I encourage everyone to make these two lists, especially if you run out of things to talk about around girls or run a lot of routines and want to be yourself more.
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