The Beauty BS
I’m in car buying hell,
Let’s get into the article.
I’ve already addressed the rating issue years ago publicly, but I still think there is too much focus put on getting the prettiest girl, as opposed to the girl you have the most in common with or the girl you actually have chemistry with. Not to say that all of those can’t be the same girl.
I personally blame Mystery. When other guys were talking about tactics on How To Pick Up Girls, he went out of his way to disparage picking up the girl at the magazine rack, because and I quote
” I want the girl on the cover of the magazine.”
Great, so do a gazillion other guys, but unless you live in LA, NY or Miami your chances of meeting a famous cover model are slim to none, let alone having the game to get her.
So the first problem with the 10s parameter, is a find problem. There just aren’t that many girls that look like the girls on magazine covers.Especially in Milwaukee, Cleveland, Denver, and Alaska where many of my students live.
The second problem, is that girls don’t actually look like that. There’s expert lighting, photography, and photoshop that goes in to making the girls on the cover of the magazines look like that.
The girls themselves don’t look like that first thing in the morning and I say that as someone who has slept with 4 girls who have been in Playboy( The actual magazine not cyber, or college or any of that bullshit).
The third problem is that it’s shallow as fuck. If you’re most guys reading this, you want a girl to look past your surface level defects and like you for your confidence, social skills, charm etc… Yet girls are only getting judged on their looks?
And to make it clear to the idiots who read my blog, I’m not telling people to start dating ugly girls with good personalities.
What I’m saying is that you should aim to find a girl or girls(s) that you are physically attracted to ( If you’re like me you’re attracted to a decent amount of girls who aren’t perfect 10s) who you have a lot in common with, who you get along with, and who you actually enjoy spending time with.
Rather than consistently putting yourself around girls you hate in order to have some orgasm with a girl whose name you won’t remember 3 years later.
Not that that’s ever happened to me or anything 🙂
Do girls leave you confused as to whether or not they like you?
Let's face it. Girl's don't make it easy for you. She will often send mixed signals leaving you unable to tell if she is being friendly or flirty. If you read her signals wrong you risk rejection and embarrassment. Or worse, you blow it with a girl who wanted to kiss you.
Here is a simple and innocent move that will instantly tell you if you're in the friend zone, or if she's waiting for you to kiss her.
We respect your email privacy
About john sinn Sinn is widely regarded as the second best PUA in the world. Sinn is known for his hard nosed style and take no excuses approach to teaching. He is a nondenominational teacher, which means that he subscribes to no particular method and instead blends the best of every school of seduction to create the best possible results for himself and his students. Sinn is currently running his own pick up company The Sinns Of Attraction, which offers live, phone and email training.