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How Do You Create Attraction Over Text?

Posted August 6, 2018

The Fundamental Rules Of Creating Attraction Over Text Texting, whether you like it or not, has a massive role in your dating life. Whether it’s Whatsapp, Facebook, or iMessage – people speak over text every day. And when it comes to flirting, most of them completely suck. At some point, you’re going to be in a

Handling Women’s Tests

Posted August 5, 2018

From TSBMag Archive : Why Women Test You (and How to Handle Them) I want to tell you a story about the exact moment I learned to love being tested by a woman. It wasn’t always this way. In fact, long ago I was clueless to the fact that women were actually testing men. I thought that when women

When A Woman Wants To Take It Slow- 6 Tips & How To Deal

Posted August 3, 2018

6 Tips & A Counterintuitive Solution For Speeding Things Up One of those punches to the gut that all men experience at some point. “I like you, but I think we should take it slow” Heard that before? How did it feel? If we’re anything alike, it probably felt confusing. And frustrating. And a bit

“Fools Mate” The Most Low Self Esteem Idea EVER

Posted August 1, 2018

I was reading through some psych research this week, and in reading about people with co-dependent personalities I found some really interesting ideas that could be applied to both students who enter the community and the guys who have been teaching for quite some time like me 🙂 One thing that co-dependent people tend to

What To Do When A Girl Stops Texting You

Posted July 31, 2018

From TSBMag Archive : Six Steps To Reviving A Dead Conversation When a girl ignores your messages, it can feel like such a fall from grace. Yesterday, you were having a great time and she seemed super-down for a date. Now, you’re supposedly not worth responding to. This situation can seem as if you’re backed into a corner with

The Shit Test Formula

Posted July 30, 2018

From TSBMag Archive : How to Pass a Girl’s Shit Test What’s the right attitude for responding to a “shit test?” How should you respond when a girl throws one at you? This is a question I get a lot when I’m working with one of my private coaching clients. “Should I appear angry?” “Should I laugh it off”

How to Get That One Super Hot Girl

Posted July 28, 2018

From TSBMag Archive : How to Score the 9 or 10 So, you’re out in a bar and you see her, time slows down, a wind machine magically appears but is somehow only aimed at her hair. It’s that classic scene from an 80’s film but somehow in the middle of a bar in 2011. Then you realize “oh

Semi-Advanced Post: Attraction is Highest the First Time

Posted July 25, 2018

Here’s one of my big new ideas, about escalation and emotions. Once you’re good enough at this stuff that you get laid on a regular basis (say 10 new lays a year) then it becomes all about the idea of striking while the iron is hot. The reason being when you have good attraction game,

Why She Stopped Replying To You

Posted July 24, 2018

There Are Simple Ways To Figure Out Why She Stopped Replying To You Messaging girls is a headache, and sometimes, it can be tough figuring out why she’s stopped replying to you. A lot of this has to do with the medium of online messaging / texting itself. But it also has a lot to do

Is She Over Her Ex?

Posted July 21, 2018

Things to Watch for That May Reveal That A Flame Still Burns for Her Ex Love comes and goes. Breakups happen. Various sources disagree on who gets over relationships quicker, men or women, but it’s all subjective. If the love was deep, both genders can deal with some heavy mourning and pining. Neither gender really

How To Play It Cool After Hooking Up

Posted July 20, 2018

The Right Things to Do After A Hookup That Leave a Good Impression (instead of looking like a douche) If you are a red-blooded male, hookups are bound to happen. You never know, right? One thing leads to another, the conversation gets hot and next thing you know, the two of you are headed out

Re-Visiting Sticking Points

Posted July 18, 2018

I’m in the middle of moving and waiting for furniture so I figured I’d write out a quick blog post. I feel like I’ve definitely written blogs while waiting for furniture before… But I move a lot so it makes sense. Today I want to lay out what I believe are the basic sticking points

How Soon Can A Conversation Turn Sexual?

Posted July 17, 2018

How soon can a conversation turn sexual? If there was one thing I struggled with most when I was starting out, it was this. I got over my approach anxiety, I started getting dates, I would always make them laugh, and would (eventually) start physically escalating, but I rarely ever turned a conversation sexual as

How to Tell if a Girl Likes You (5 Fool Proof Signs to Look For)

Posted July 15, 2018

From TSBMag Archive : The Signs a Girl Likes You (and the #1 Proof) How many times have you been twenty minutes into a conversation with a woman … and asking yourself ‘Does she like me or is she just being polite?’ It would be so much easier if they just came right out and said it, wouldn’t it?

How To Convince Your Girlfriend To Have A Threesome

Posted July 14, 2018

The Three Important Needs for Initiating A Great Threesome That She Will Enjoy (and you will too) Ménage à trois. It’s a titillating thought, isn’t it? Many men become instantly aroused when they hear it, while some men have no idea what it means. But, once translated, many men stand at attention. It is one

Sticking Point #15 Getting To Average

Posted July 11, 2018

There were a few questions about this sticking point in the comments, so I figured I’d start by taking a look at getting to average. This is actually one of the first sticking points you need to deal with in order to start actually getting dates, lays etc… But I forgot it until the end