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What to Say to a Girl

Things to Say to a Girl You Like

What to say to a hot girl who likes thisIf you found this article, it’s probably because you don’t know what to say to a girl you like.

I know how frustrating and humiliating it can be to like a girl, want to talk to her, but have no clue what kind of things to say to a girl.

In this article I want to talk about what type of “talk” girls find attractive, how to introduce different topics into a conversation, and most importantly, I’ll explain exactly what to say to a girl you like.

When you know what kind of things to say to a girl, how to say them in a way that turns her on, and can keep a conversation flowing, in a fun, flirtatious way, it is very easy to learn how to get a girl to like you.

What to Say to Start a Conversation with a Girl

You’ve probably been in a situation where you were fairly certain a girl liked you.  Maybe she was giving you a lot of eye contact, smiling at you, or maybe she even told someone she found you attractive.

But, even though she was right in front of you, and you could easily have made your move, you had know I idea what to say to the girl to start the conversation with her.

Here’s a few tips for things to say to start talking to a girl you like:

1.  Try to jump right into a conversation.  When you spend too much time with small talk the conversation tends to get boring, and you might lose attraction that she feels for you.

The best way to do this is to pull her into a conversation you were already having.  For instance, if you’re talking to your friends about something (especially anything with a little “drama” to it) simply turn to a girl and ask her opinion on whatever you’re talking about.

Did you notice how in the example conversation that I gave you never spent time with formal introductions or “getting to know you” chit chat.

2.  Quickly establish yourself as a flirt.  In order to get a girl to like you it is important that she sees you as a flirtatious guy.  If not, you might wind up in the friend zone.

This means that early on in the conversation you should begin to playfully tease her and make it clear to her that you’re interested in her in a romantic and sexual way.

If you would like to get a free copy of the Teasing and Banter Cheat Sheet you can grab a copy here.

3.  Use “openers”  as things to say to a girl you like. One of the best ways to make sure that you always have something to say to a girl you like is to have a few things ready beforehand.  In this article all about PUA openers I talk about what kind of opening lines work best for girls.

Sweet Things to Say to A Girl You Like

How to get a girl like this to like youMost guys think that you need to say sweet things to a girl you like.  This is not really the case.  In fact, sometimes being “too nice” can have you wind up in the friend zone.

This is why it is important to make sure that you talk about things with a girl that will lead to attraction.  This usually involves learning how to flirt.

So what do you say to a girl you like?

1.  Tease her.  Teasing is the easiest and quickest way to get a conversation with a girl to a fun, flirtatious level.  It will establish you as a flirt, and it will create “chemistry” between you and her.  Here is a good primer on how to tease a girl.

2. Make Statements and express your opinions.  Too many guys treat a conversation with a girl like it is a job interview.  Instead of simply asking and answering questions about each other, tell her what you notice about her.  Make statements that let her see your real “personality.”

3. Use conversation “games” to keep the mood fun and flirtatious.  Games can be anything  like “truth or dare” or to less extreme games like the “5 questions game”.  You can learn some of my favorite games here.

4. Don’t compliment her too much.  If a girl is attractive than chances are she has already heard all the standard compliments about her looks.  Never compliment a girl on her looks, eyes, or body.  Instead, its better to compliment her on her sense of style, her sense of humor, or something “quirky” you notice about her.

5.  Talk about emotional topics.  The best topics for conversation are ones that create an emotional experience for her.  Some examples of these kinds of topics are childhood memories, music, future ambitions, traveling, or stories about overcoming obstacles or struggle.

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Funny things to say to a girl

Most guys are way to preoccupied with trying to be funny.  But what I’ve found is that it is much easier to make a girl laugh than you could possibly imagine.

More Things to Say to a Girl You Like

I know you might not know exactly what to say to a girl you like or take the conversation to a flirtatious level, so I created a FREE 27 page manuscript called Small Talk Tactics: Make Small Talk Sexy.

In this report and MP3 I give you examples of exactly what kinds of things to say to a girl and things to do to create “sexual attraction.”

The fact is, finding out a girl likes you is only the first step in getting the kiss or making her your girlfriend.  If you want to move to the second step, you absolutely must know what kind of things to say to a girl.

This manuscript will show you exactly how to flirt in a way that gets a girl’s attention focused on you, so that you can easily kiss her, ask her out on a date, or get her back to your bedroom.

If you want to see a sample of some of things you’re going to learn read though “How to Talk to Women:Make Small Talk Sexy

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Isn’t it about time you learn what to say to a girl?