Playing Mind Tricks on Women
NLP Mind Trick for Women
Pre-suppositions or loaded sentences, are used subconciously by men and women the world over, yet has little or no effect or concequence. In order to be effective, presupposition must be used deliberately and methodically, with a specific outcome in mind. These “mind tricks” as they are sometimes dubbed, drastically make it easier for the girl to realize and make a decision as to what it is that she really wants (and then go with the flow:).
They shift attention from something (seemingly) unimportant as if it is a given or it has somehow already been agreed upon to the (seemingly) important as it needs yet to be decided upon.
In order to understand the “loaded” question and answer it (“would you like tea or coffee?”) she has to accept the presupposition that accompanies the question (“before we go to my place”:).
So for example, lets say you want to invite the girl over to your place. You definitely cannot say “soooo…do you want to go to my place?”….you’re setting youself up for a negative response. Women love that! There is too much power put into her hands at this point! Now She has the power to say “YES” or “NO”! This is not what you want….so here is how you say it….”Sooo….would you like (something to drink) before (I take you home)?”
“Would you like (another coke / whiskey) before (I take you home / we go to your place / we go to my place)?”
If she answers “YES” to your question, which she will, subconciously, you’re programming her subconcious to feel comfortable going to your house. Her subconcious is now getting used to the idea that, yes, I agreed to go to his place, and will find the rationale to justify going.
Presuppositions can also be used in ordinary sentences to help her decideâ€¦ or rather, decide for her:) If you’d like to take a shower together with her after spending the night together, instead of asking “Wanna take a shower? How about something like “I’ll ready the shower for us:)”.
Here are a few more examples of how a simple sentence can help a girl sway towards the right decision:) or simply not leave her with much choice:) Use these to construct your own “decision-swayers”.
“So do you want to meet together again tomorrow over lunch, or over coffee? (keep talking!) e.g. Either way, the most important thing is that we can carry on this conversation. Sound good to you?”
“So do you want to dance now, or wait until the next slow? (keep talking!) You’re looking as if YOU CAN’T WAIT to dance now. Let’s go!?” Cause & Effect
“You won’t get the most out of the music just thinking about it, since the best way to experience it is to dance together.”
“As you sit there, you can feel the pulsating music deep within you and you know you have to dance before the night is out. Come:)”
Two mini-patterns using time distortion, binds of comparable alternatives and humour to break a girl’s resistance to getting together with you:
“Won’t it be great AFTER we’ve gone out and laughed and felt really comfortable together? Then you can just look back at it all, smile that smile of satisfaction, and think to yourself: that was one of the best times, I’ve ever had!”
” I don’t know if, when we go out, whether it will be a wonderfully fun adventure or just an incredibly enjoyable good time, but it sure will feel great to laugh and have fun that much, won’t it?”
An example of using a combination of the above techniques and thought binding:
You: You know, I can tell you are a woman with great taste!
Her: How do you know?
You: Because you laugh at what I say. And the more you laugh, the more you’ll recognise just how attractive you find that you want to laugh some more, and the more you’ll look forward to being with someone just like that / the more you’ll LOOK FORWARD to having the best time when we go out together.
Note: The presup above is used rarely in the NLP community however, it is very powerful since all the presuppositions are stacked together. This increases their weight and effectiveness. In this case 3 such presuppositions.
You: See…just like that:)
You: Seriously…haven’t you ever met someone, and you just knew you were going to like this person (point to yourself), cause you could just STOP, and IMAGINE BEING TOGETHER, feeling totally comfortable, and absolutely connected, for all the right reasons?
You: Well, see? So, as you think about it like that…” …then just keep chatting, transition to IC pattern, whatever.
After Eliciting Her Values: After finding out what the girl likes to do, talk with the assumption that you’re going to do it together: “Well, when we’re doing [this and this] together, it would be nice if [something and something]”
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