How to get 10 phone numbers in 2 hours or less…
Here is another Dave M internet dating article. His articles seem to be very similiar to eachother but i always post them in case you’ve missed them. Also, if you’re not already a member of an online dating site…what the fuck are you thinking?
Getting Dates Online by Dave M
I’m sitting here at home, on my apple laptop, and
without even leaving my bedroom I was able to find
20 new women I was somewhat interested in on a
couple of dating websites I use.
I sent them each an email.
An email that I SLIGHTLY modified for each of
them, and within 45 minutes… I was sitting with
Sent 20, got 13 responses. (keep following)
NOT BAD FOR 5 MINUTES OF ‘WORK’
(if you call it work, its pretty much just COPY AND PASTE)
UNfortunately, like you and I both know, having a woman
responding to your initial email, doesn’t mean you’re going
to be able to get their number.
(although I have do an unfair advantage IID)
I THEN SENT THEM ANOTHER COPY AND PASTE EMAIL..
And within 2 hours, I had 10 new emails conaining
the phone numbers of 10 lovely (and attractive) women
who are all *VERY* eager to speak to me.
Sent 20, got 13 responses. Got 10 phone numbers
(not bad but I ended up with another reply with phone
number later on in the day. I ended up 12 numbers. 🙂
For some guys reading this, what I just mentioned sounds
like a scene from of a movie.
It just doesn’t seem real.
I can totally relate because a few years ago this used to
be nothing more than a fantasy for me too!
Now his fantasy is a typical day for me.
It’s not really hard to get a woman to respond
and then give you her phone number… IF you
understand the PROCESS behind meeting women
on the internet.
Exactly what did I send these 20 women that was
so interesting they were FORCED to write back?
Simple, I’ll tell you in a second, but before I get to
that let me explain something very relevant and very
One of the things I talk about in the program is
my ‘templates’. They’re basically email sequences
I’ve tested and refined over 4 years.
Copy and paste templates for every type of situation
you may run across when meeting women online.
And I mean EVERY situation.
Constantly refining them over and over until
they were so GOOD women wouldn’t even know
you sent something similar to 30 OTHER women
Ok, back to what I sent to these 20 women…
Heres the sequence I sent them:
STEP 1: INTRODUCTION
Mention something about what you really think
about meeting women thru the internet
STEP 2: MENTION SOMETHING FUNNY ABOUT
Yes, I’m talking about you picking on her. If there’s
something she’s wearing, a pose she’s in, the type
of photo or something she says bust on her for it!
(this is where the email is customized for each
STEP 3: TELL HER BRIEFLY ABOUT YOURSELF
Take 1 small sentence and highlight something
about yourself. Remember to keep it *very* BRIEF.
STEP 4: CALL TO ACTION
What do you want her to do after she reads this
Tell her what you’d like her to do.
STEP 5: SIGN OFF
This is where you place your name and your email
address… make sure you use the right format or
it will be filtered out and she won’t see it.
That is what I sent all of them. Thats the EXACT
sequence I used… Next week odds are I’ll use a
different sequence and perhaps it might work even
better than this one.
I’m always trying out new things.
WHAT HAPPENS AFTER SHE RESPONDS?
Just like I show you in the program, I simply copied
and pasted my ‘phone number’ email, which pretty much
always gets you their phone number.
Yes, it REALLY is this easy.
That sequence I’ve tested and refined COUNTLESS
number of times and its only one of SEVERAL that
I have and one of about 8 that I share with you
inside the Insider Internet Dating program.
WHAT IF YOU WANT TO CREATE YOUR OWN
Heres what you’d have to do:
STEP 1. Create an email
STEP 2. Create another version of it only change
something in it.
STEP 3. Send both out with SEPARATE headlines
so you can keep track of which one gets more
STEP 4. The one that gets more responses you
keep, the other? Get rid of it.
STEP 5. Rinse wash repeat. That means just do
the same thing over again.
I must tell you…
For your sequence to have anywhere near the
effectiveness that mine have, you’re going to have
to conduct around 423 tests.
What I mean is you’re going to have to do that
whole set of steps I just mentioned 423 DIFFERENT
Yes, I know it’s crazy… and I’m nuts for doing
it, but I actually conducted around 423 tests that
took me over 3 years to do.
I tested ALL kinds of stuff…. from headlines,
openers, questions to ask, days of the week to
email and a whole lot more.
If you’ve got all that time on your hands, and
the energy to do it then by all means go for it.
For most of us, thats NOT an option.
99% of us don’t have time, we work and turning
dating into a scientific experiment isn’t something
we consider fun.
ESPECIALLY after a day of listening to your
boss, or dealing with customers.
In fact, if I had to do it again, I probably wouldn’t
be able to do it… it was THAT much work.
What you now see is the end result of this
hard work. (i.e. more results in less time.)
That is what meeting women online is about…
More results, with less effort. Meeting women online
the way I do it, is so much fun because you know
exactly what you have to do each step of the way
and it doesn’t take much time to do.
If you’re reading these emails and saying to yourself
‘I really need to improve what I’m doing’ because
you’re NOT getting the results you want with meeting
women online then I couldn’t agree with you more.
Getting success with this part of your life doesn’t
Sure you might have some good experiences here
and there because you were either speaking to
the right girl at the right time or got a girl that was
more needy than you were…
But consistent success with meeting women online
is the result of knowing EXACTLY what do do each
step of the way and then being able to do it.
Its about learning the exact PROCESS.
I have the most amazing education system for
meeting women off the internet that will teach
you just that.
I’ve never published the material you find in Insider
Internet Dating. It’s never been part of any course or
seminar talk I’ve ever done. No one knows about it
except for my own students.
You won’t find it anywhere.
Any guy can use it, it will work on any dating site
and it will help you put your dating on AUTOPILOT.
The best part?
This program is available RIGHT NOW and I’d like
to send it over to you to take it for a ‘test-drive’.
Grab your copy now and I’ll let you try it for 45 days.
If you don’t like it, send it back, we’ll still be friends….
no hard feelings.
About Bobby Rio I'm Bobby Rio, one of the founders of TSB. I tend to write about what is on my mind so you'll find a mix of self development, social dynamics and dating articles/experiences. For a collection of some of my favorite articles check them out.