I’m always interested in fun new ways to begin an interaction with women. The thing is that the best openers are spontaneous… you just have the frame of mind that will allow them to pop in your head naturally. One of the reasons I really enjoyed the Master the Vibe audio I reviewed last week was because it showed how to be spontaneous with your interactions yet still stick to the script of building comfort, building attraction, and hopefully closing. Here is an example of how Christian Hudson is always thinking on his feet.
Good Conversation Starter by Christian Hudson
Depending on how high-status she sees herself and the rest of
the environment, you may need to use this sort of bait. I had a
girl walk up to me one night at a club called Le Souk, looking
for an exit (it is a labrynthine place). Her eyes started to
wander as I was talking (loudly) so I had to bait her with the
Her: Hey, where’s the front door in here, I’m lost…
Me: It’s right up in that direction, towards the (now her eyes
are wandering behind me in the opposite direction I’m
pointing)… hey look, just because you’re beautiful doesn’t
mean you can get away with a shitty pickup line.
Her: But I wasn’t trying to…
Me: (interrupting her) Oh my God you don’t have me fooled for a
second. Here, I’m going to give you a good line to use then
we’ll find a less assuming guy for you to practice and get good
with before coming back to me.
And yes, I DID capture that one on audio and it will be on a
future episode of Master the Vibe.
Do girls leave you confused as to whether or not they like you?
Let's face it. Girl's don't make it easy for you. She will often send mixed signals leaving you unable to tell if she is being friendly or flirty. If you read her signals wrong you risk rejection and embarrassment. Or worse, you blow it with a girl who wanted to kiss you.
Here is a simple and innocent move that will instantly tell you if you're in the friend zone, or if she's waiting for you to kiss her.
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About Bobby Rio I'm Bobby Rio, one of the founders of TSB. I tend to write about what is on my mind so you'll find a mix of self development, social dynamics and dating articles/experiences. For a collection of some of my favorite articles check them out.