Recording Your Conversations with Women
Should you record your pick-ups?
Most of you who have read my review of Master the Vibe know what a great resource I believe the audio provides. The huge benefit of listening to Christian Hudson and friends pick up women is that you get to see all those tools you’ve learned in action. On each audio you get dozens of examples of great conversations. I truly believe that for anyone that doesn’t understand how to move from opening a woman, to building attraction, and then comfort, this is one of the best programs out there to demonstrate this.
But I want to take it one step further. I think that everyone one of you who is serious about improving your conversations with women (and people in general) should not only be listening to Master the Vibe, but you should be out there recording your own conversations. The combination of listening to their conversations and then comparing theirs to your own in priceless in helping you understand how you can better your pick-ups.
I first bought a digital voice recorder and microphone a few years ago when I was struggling in a new sales job. One of the top salesman let me sit in on his pitch to a client. I then made a similar pitch to another client and recorded it. (which is only illegal if you get caught!) When I listened to my failed pitch I was able to notice several of my major flaws. My tonality was horrible which made me appear unsure of myself. This presents a lack of confidence. A lack of confidence shows that you don’t believe in what you’re selling. If you don’t believe in it, neither will the customer. This whole theme transcends sales and is exactly the same in picking up girls. One little thing like bad tonality can be crushing your chances with women.
The first night I brought a voice recorder out with me for picking up women was on Cinco de Mayo three years ago. Listening to my conversations (which got significantly less coherent as the night went on) presented a huge learning device for me. While my tonality was now right, I was able to see that my cocky/funny was coming off more cocky than funny. It wasn’t until I listened to myself delivering the lines that I was able to see why I wasn’t getting the reactions I thought I should be.
I highly recommend getting a digital voice recorder and microphone (you won’t be able to hear well without the microphone) and bringing it out with you on nights you intend on picking up women. This one little thing can make all the difference. I also recommend listening to the pickups on Master the Vibe and comparing on contrasting their conversations with your own. You’ll be able to see any potential difference that may be causing you not to be achieving the results that they are.
About Bobby Rio I'm Bobby Rio, one of the founders of TSB. I tend to write about what is on my mind so you'll find a mix of self development, social dynamics and dating articles/experiences. For a collection of some of my favorite articles check them out.