Valentine’s Day Game
Quite frankly Valentine’s Day can be one of the most awkward holidays there is if you don’t know how to handle it smoothly with the woman you’re seeing.
I’ve put together some of the advice on the subject and included it all in this post. No matter what you’re situation is, you will surely find an answer to it here.
Let me just say this: Unless you are either completely single or in one committed long-term relationship, Valentine's Day is not your friend.
What you do on Valentine's Day depends on your status. We're going to go over:
- If you're not involved with anyone.
- If you are involved with a woman but she doesn't have girlfriend status.
- If you do have a girlfriend.
1. Give her a gift certificate for some your time. If you're handy, fix something, tune her car, or wash it, for example.
2. Give her car a safety check, oil, etc and show her how to read all of the gauges.
3. Polish her shoes and boots (unless they're suede)
4. Put a couple of drops of your favorite cologne (best make sure she likes it, first) on each light bulb in your living room or bedroom. When turned on, it will smell masculine and appealing and make her think of you.
5. Pick up a copy of Bartlett's Familiar Quotations available in paperback. Of get another book of quotations at a local bookstore or library. Include appropriate quotes on pieces of paper or cards that you send or leave in easily found places for the deserving lady.
HEY WHERE'S MY CARD??
I didn't get a card from you today yet? and I want chocolates! and flowers! I like it when girls buy me flowers. All the other girls here bought me flowers.
Again, you can deliver this with a big wide smile or pretend to be angry.
I have yet to see a girl come up with a good answer to this. If she comes across as a bitchy all why would I get you a card? then she's not worth your time anyway. Most girls just laugh and giggle at which point you push things a bit further as above, and then change threads. So anyway, I need a female opinion using a canned opener or something improvised about Valentines Day.
Do girls leave you confused as to whether or not they like you?
Let's face it. Girl's don't make it easy for you. She will often send mixed signals leaving you unable to tell if she is being friendly or flirty. If you read her signals wrong you risk rejection and embarrassment. Or worse, you blow it with a girl who wanted to kiss you.
Here is a simple and innocent move that will instantly tell you if you're in the friend zone, or if she's waiting for you to kiss her.
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About Bobby Rio I'm Bobby Rio, one of the founders of TSB. I tend to write about what is on my mind so you'll find a mix of self development, social dynamics and dating articles/experiences. For a collection of some of my favorite articles check them out.