The 5 Big Myths of Getting Laid
I recently chatted with TSB Magazine?s current #1 ranked pick-up artist Jon Sinn about his new easy process for getting women in bed called the Seduction Roadmap .? According to Jon, getting laid is not as difficult as a lot of guys make it out be.
Here?s as part of our discussion where Jon goes over 5 Myths that prevent a lot of guys from getting laid:
JS: ?The first big myth that gets in the way of guys getting all of the sexual satisfaction they want, is that Approach Anxiety is the only kind of anxiety guys will have to deal with when it comes to getting laid.
In reality Approach Anxiety is often a symptom of a greater problem known as Sexual Anxiety.
Sexual Anxiety is the silent killer when it comes to meeting, attracting and seducing beautiful women. When you have sexual anxiety, you get nervous or uncomfortable when anything related to sex comes up. Sexual Anxiety can manifest itself as a reluctance to approaching, an inability to physically escalate an interaction with a woman, and even performance anxiety induced impotence.
That?s the bad news.
The good news is that Sexual Anxiety is very treatable. I?ve even put together a whole training on Sexual Anxiety that a psychologist friend of mine says rivals anything he?s ever seen in Behavioral Cognitive Therapy courses. Unfortunately, I can?t share it all in the time we have for this interview but I can give you a fast start to curing your Sexual Anxiety. The two basic things to keep in mind are experience and education.
By education I mean, you need to learn about sex, female anatomy, and what turns women on. I personally recommend the book The Guide To Getting It On by Paul Joannides. It?s well written, easy to read and funny.
By experience, I mean you need to get some experience with sex. And paying for it doesn?t count J The girl doesn?t need to be the woman of your dreams, but you need to experiment with different positions, acts, etc? Not only will this help you to explore your own sexuality, it will make you much more confident in later interactions with women.? I recommend guys go on a free internet dating website like Plentyoffish.com to find a sexual partner quickly.
JS:? The next myth is that women only get attracted to men in one way. When you look at all the dating advice out there, they all treat attraction like it?s a one size fits all process.
This neglects the reality of the situation, which is that women get attracted to guys all the time for all kinds of different reasons.
In fact recently, I sat down with a couple of my really hot female friends to interview them about all the different ways they get attracted to guys, and I was blown away by how many different ways they told me they could become attracted to a guy.
So I grouped these different types of attraction into three major categories.
So a big problem out there is that guys are using the first two kinds of attraction and COMPLETLY ignoring the third kind, which incidentally is the most important form of attraction for actually getting laid.
JS: ?Yeah the third myth is something that most guys actually don?t want to believe.? The myth is that women don?t enjoy casual sexual relationships.
The problem is that most guys don?t know how to frame themselves, the woman and the interaction in a way that makes all of a woman?s objections to sex simply melt away.
I call the process of getting rid of these expectations; Sexual Framing.
Let?s look at the three most common objections to sex, and the sexual frames you can set to get rid of them FAST!
Right now, you can view free videos where Jon gives a live demonstration of his #1 technique for creating sexual attraction and gives a step-by-step guide to sexual framing.
Check out the videos here.
About Bobby Rio I'm Bobby Rio, one of the founders of TSB. I tend to write about what is on my mind so you'll find a mix of self development, social dynamics and dating articles/experiences. For a collection of some of my favorite articles check them out.