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Inner States and Game

Posted May 1, 2019

Today I wanted to briefly talk about the idea of inner states and how they can help your game. An inner state, is pretty much precisely what it sounds like; an inner statement you make to yourself about yourself. Ideally you want to use present tense language about a goal or process you want to

9 Useful Techniques For Developing Unbreakable Focus

Posted May 1, 2019

Focusing Is Just As Much About What You Say NO To As It Is What You Say YES To Writing about attention, William James recommended staring at a dot in the center of the wall. After a while, he stated that the dot would typically blur, or begin to split into two. However, if instead,

What To Talk About On A Date

Posted May 1, 2019

A full list of things to say on a first date If you’ve been scrolling the web for advice on things to say to a woman, you’ll probably have already heard that it’s not what you say, it’s the way you say it. This is absolutely true. Your vibe, body language and voice tonality communicate

Stop Sucking At Life; Stop Sucking With Girls

Posted April 24, 2019

One of the things I’m sure I’ve joked about on here many times is the idea that some people suck at life. These people are generally unhealthy (overweight, out of shape, acne, unibrows and bad grooming) anti-social (either through shyness or weird antisocial behavior like nerd arrogance) and unsuccessful (in their career, their goals, financially

How To Win A Girl Over After She’s Rejected You

Posted April 24, 2019

It’s common for girls to act cold after you approach One word answers. Not looking up from her phone. Verbally stating her disinterest. We’ve all been there… The question is: how can you turn this around? This guide offers some tips for capturing a girl’s interest after she initially rejected you. Keep talking The biggest

How To Be Smooth

Posted April 23, 2019

The More You Try To Be Smooth, The Less Smooth You Will Actually Be Burn this into your mind: just as a happy guy doesn’t feel the need to be happy. A smooth guy doesn’t feel the need to be smooth. The typical perception of being smooth is that it’s about being effortlessly in control

Ways Men Act Needy

Posted April 18, 2019

After coaching men for nearly 12 years, one thing I quickly realized is most guys don’t act in their best interest when it comes to their social life. Even when a guy kind of thinks he knows the game, his emotions take over and causes him to act insecure, needy, clingy, predictable, all things that

How To Be Edgy And Become A “Bad Boy”

Posted April 18, 2019

Being A Bad Boy Isn’t About Being An Asshole, It’s About Assertiveness, And Comfort In Your Own Skin We’ve all heard it before: “Women like bad boys.” And guess what? It’s true. If you’re a nice guy, you’re probably going to turn her off faster than a severe case of bad breath. But when it

The Counter Productives

Posted April 17, 2019

The weeks are really flying by as we get to the end of the year huh? Today I wanted to talk about a new concept I’ve been teaching my Private Coaching students over the last few months. I call it The Counter Productives: The concept is this, every guy has things he does that are counter productive

The Biggest Mistake A Guy Can Make in Dating

Posted April 17, 2019

This Will Ruin Your Game With Women Some crazy shit happened the other day and I have to share it with you guys… …Please don’t make this same mistake… VAN’S GOT YOUR BACK! So, my best friend recently moved in with me and he is new to the state. …He doesn’t know any

How To Boost Self-Esteem

Posted April 17, 2019

Self-esteem is the first step to getting girls Without self-esteem, even the slickest seduction tricks will be useless. A woman will be able to tell if you deserve her by reading your behavior, body language and voice tonality. It’s so difficult to fake. The self always shines through in the end. This fact explains why