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How To Be Smooth

Posted April 23, 2019

The More You Try To Be Smooth, The Less Smooth You Will Actually Be Burn this into your mind: just as a happy guy doesn’t feel the need to be happy. A smooth guy doesn’t feel the need to be smooth. The typical perception of being smooth is that it’s about being effortlessly in control

Ways Men Act Needy

Posted April 18, 2019

After coaching men for nearly 12 years, one thing I quickly realized is most guys don’t act in their best interest when it comes to their social life. Even when a guy kind of thinks he knows the game, his emotions take over and causes him to act insecure, needy, clingy, predictable, all things that

How To Be Edgy And Become A “Bad Boy”

Posted April 18, 2019

Being A Bad Boy Isn’t About Being An Asshole, It’s About Assertiveness, And Comfort In Your Own Skin We’ve all heard it before: “Women like bad boys.” And guess what? It’s true. If you’re a nice guy, you’re probably going to turn her off faster than a severe case of bad breath. But when it

The Counter Productives

Posted April 17, 2019

The weeks are really flying by as we get to the end of the year huh? Today I wanted to talk about a new concept I’ve been teaching my Private Coaching students over the last few months. I call it The Counter Productives: The concept is this, every guy has things he does that are counter productive

The Biggest Mistake A Guy Can Make in Dating

Posted April 17, 2019

This Will Ruin Your Game With Women Some crazy shit happened the other day and I have to share it with you guys… …Please don’t make this same mistake… VAN’S GOT YOUR BACK! So, my best friend recently moved in with me and he is new to the state. …He doesn’t know any

How To Boost Self-Esteem

Posted April 17, 2019

Self-esteem is the first step to getting girls Without self-esteem, even the slickest seduction tricks will be useless. A woman will be able to tell if you deserve her by reading your behavior, body language and voice tonality. It’s so difficult to fake. The self always shines through in the end. This fact explains why

The Two Reasons Why a Woman Will Breakup or Cheat on You

Posted April 15, 2019

How to Avoid Getting Dumped or Cheated On Dating and attracting women can be a difficult science by itself… We’ve got to get her interested, say the right things and win her over. Some guys think that once you get a girlfriend we’re in the clear… …Mission accomplished… …Pack it up fellas, our work here

How To Make Her Notice You

Posted April 11, 2019

A guide for girls you meet at work, college or the gym You’re so close, yet so far… There’s an incredible woman on the outskirts of your social circle, She appears to be exactly your type. You love how she puts herself together, while her personality seems to fit perfectly with yours. The only problem?

Goal Hijacking

Posted April 10, 2019

Short post today on the topic of goal hijacking. What is goal hijacking? Goal hijacking is what happens when a person sets a goal whether it’s to lose weight, make more money or get better with the opposite sex. Then this person shares his/her goal with a group of like minded individuals at a seminar,

Master This One Skill to Pull Women Anywhere

Posted April 5, 2019

How to Take Your Game to the Next Level Cold approaching women can be terrifying for some of us… The idea is that we are going to walk up to a complete stranger… …Say something so smooth to break the ice… …And then continue a conversation that will hopefully lead to something more… Her phone

Re-Visiting Pick-up Dogma Part 1: Being Non-Reactive

Posted April 3, 2019

I’ve been wanting to do a series for awhile, that looked at some of the most commonly expressed ideas in the Secret Underground Internet Seduction Community (SUISC) and held them up to a little bit more examination in 2011 as opposed to 2000-2005 when most of these ideas were espoused. The first thing I wanted