Examples of Push Pull
I grabbed a woman’s hand and said, You have the most amazing smile I’ve seen tonight It makes me feel so happy inside!
She responded with, Thank you!
Then I counted the fingers on my other hand and said, You know what: actually there were four other girls with really amazing smiles tonight as well. Out of them, you have the fourth best smile. I’m going to call you number four.
And then I pushed away her hand.
She demanded, Nooo! I want to be number one!
And I replied , Alright, I’ll promote you to number three for being feisty.
A woman replied sarcastically to something I said.
So I said to her, “You know… you’re pretty sarcastic… and some people might think you’re mean because they don’t get your sarcasm. But I think your sarcasm is cool because I’m the same way. I’m also sarcastic. And that’s exactly why you and I could never hang out. ‘Cause if we did we’d have the best time making fun of everyone in our environment at their expense. And that’d be karmicly bad ’cause then all the people we made fun of would have low self esteem.”
She responded with, “Nooo. We have to hang out. You’re giving me your number right now.”
I challenged a woman to kiss me… and she did.
So I said, “You’re more adventurous than I thought. You get an A-. And you have permission to cook me dinner.”
She retorted with, “What type of food do you want me to cook you?”
Women Get Aroused Differently Than Men!
For most women, it’s a huge turn on when a man gets them all hot and bothered… and then stops touching them, making them anticipate his touch… and then starts again, exponentially increasing their arousal.
This is exactly the same as the underlying structure of Push-Pull…
And probably why many women are natural Push-Pull artists.
And as you saw with the examples above…
Push-Pull can be used to generate arousal and attraction inside women before you ever become intimate with them (A truism most men don’t realize).
I want you to do something…
Touch your arm with your hand very lightly, as if it were a feather… and then take your hand away.
If you did it right you’ll feel an itching sensation.
Touch your arm again lightly… and then take your hand away.
The itching sensation should have increased, yes?
Push-Pull has the same structure.
Whenever you emotionally Pull a woman into you and then Push her away… and then Pull her in… and so on, you’re creating inside her a sexual and emotional itch to want and reach and chase for more of you.
If you do this in a playful way, women won’t see you as a manipulative jerk.
* See you as charming and attractive.
* Perceive you as a Prize they must possess.
* Know that you’re one of the few coveted men that understand what arouses and attracts women.
* Be itching with attraction toward you.
Here is another article related to the subject: https://www.tsbmag.com/2010/07/01/push-pull-a-powerful-way-to-trigger-attraction-inside-women/
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About Josh Lubens Swinggcat, author of Real World Seduction, is a professional dating coach and pick up artist. He has created and popularized numerous attraction techniques, such as, Prizing, Push-Push, Meta-Frames and Sexual Frames. His system advocates sexually escalating with and gaining sexual compliance from women within the first few minutes of meeting them. Check out Real World Seduction.