What do you text message to girls?



What to Text A Girl (Examples)

A popular yet not widely discussed part of meeting women these days comes down to text messaging. More and more you will have to rely on your mobile phone skills to get you that first or second date. This isn’t just for young people anymore, texting has spread across every age group and is now becoming an intricate part of our daily routines.

Enough theory, lets get down to brass tacks! I decided to make a list broken down into 2 3 categories:

Openers – messages that open up the conversation; they are usually vague, funny and intriguing. Most people stay away from questions but there are always exceptions to the rules!

Closers – messages used to close or end the conversation; they can result in an instant phone call, plans for the night, a planned phone call or just to leave the conversation at bay…possibly for another time.

Textine(s) – their like routines, but done over text messaging.  A textine  consists of an opener, closer and maybe a few other messages depending on the desired outcome.

Possible desired outcomes:

  1. her calling you
  2. her asking you to call her
  3. plans to hangout
  4. meet her out somewhere
  5. continue texting @ a later time
  6. ?????????

For this first category I am going to give all of my suggestions, and I want you to leave your suggestions in the comments. Note: All messages have to be 160 characters or less!

When we are done with the 2 posts (categories), I will put all the best ones together into a master cheat sheet for everyone. Because that’s how we roll here at TSB!

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Text Openers/Starters

This is the type of message you use to just get the text conversation going… Remember, all messages have to be 160 characters or less! I came up with most of these off the top of my head, but basically any vague funny message should work as an opener.

  1. I found a place for you to take me to!
  2. Tag, you’re it!
  3. Here I am, what are your other 2 wishes?
  4. If I ever need (some product or advice related to her work), I know who to call =)
  5. Just so you don’t stalk me tonight, I’ll be at (location) – hopefully you can control yourself…
  6. OMG I just met your twin!
  7. I just made you open your phone for no reason…looks like I got you in check =)
  8. Made you look!
  9. I just saw something that reminded me of you
  10. Bad Girl!

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So that’s what to text message girls to start the conversation.

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