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10 Best US Cities To Pick Up Girls



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10. Memphis – With Beale Street, a great music scene, multiple universities nearby, and the strongest single women to single men ratio in the South, Memphis breaks in our top 10. Check out some blues, grab a JB and coke and chase some Southern belles.

9. Los Angeles – Love it or hate it, LA has to be included on this list. Despite a MASSIVE disparity between young single men and women, LA has to be included simply for quality. Hollywood is here, beaches are here and you will see some of the hottest girls in the country here – although there might be six other guys talking to them, that’s something not every city can boast.

8. Chicago – Frank Sinatra once said that the only true cities in America were Chicago and New York City. For anyone who has been to the Windy City, you can attest that it’s a pretty awesome place to go out. The third largest city in America, it’s also one of only three cities that remains open past 2AM last call. Whether you go out in Lincoln Park or the clubs downtown, you have more than enough places to chase some tail. It is also one of the best day game cities in the country.

7. Washington D.C. – Although spread out and somewhat hard to get around, the nation’s capital boasts one of the best single women to men ratios as well as some of the most educated women in the country. Catch the flocks of recent journalism and poli-sci grad students flocking to Capital Hill if you want yourself a hot brainiac.

6. Boston – Boston has the second best women to men ratio in the country and was recently named by People magazine as the best city for singles in the US. I can tell you from living there, Boston only gets better considering the fact that the men up there have possibly the worst game in the country. I don’t know what it is, but Boston is the only major city you’ll ever see where NO other guy is approaching women  but you. It’s shooting fish in a barrel.

The Top 5

5. Montreal – OK, so it’s not in the US, but it’s too good to leave off this list. With amazing weather in the summer, more festivals than you can shake a stick at, beautiful French-Canadian accents, and a liberal lifestyle, Montreal is an awesome party town.


4. New Orleans – The Big Easy… World famous nightlife here as well as Mardi Gras. New Orleans in a word can be described as pure degeneracy. The women party hard and late here, and the wide variety of cultures and scenes makes this an amazing place to bar hop. The French Quarter is also a great place to day game as well.


3. Miami – The hottest women in the US. Hands down. The best beach in the US. And possibly the most expensive clubs in the US. Miami has amazingly beautiful women and has them everywhere. But don’t come here without your wallet. South Beach is insanely pricey and a lot of these beauties won’t give you the time of day unless you’ve got some sort of cash.


2. Las Vegas – It’s almost not even fair putting Las Vegas on this list. It’s like Disneyland for pussy. I honestly think you could approach 100 women a day in Vegas if you wanted to. Crazy thins happen here. Only problem is the priciness and the loads of tourists. Girls are usually in large groups or with groups of guys making pulling a hit or miss affair. But given the sheer quantity of girls partying in one square mile, you can’t ever go wrong here.


1. New York City – NYC has the highest single woman to single man ratio in the US. Manhattan, in particular is just overflowing with smart, beautiful and open-minded women and they’re all a short cab ride away. You have every social scene you could ever want on one island, and the city never sleeps. There’s always a club or bar going until at least 3-4AM seven nights a week. You throw on top of that the fact that Manhattan is the day game Mecca of the world AND the ease of transportation AND the amount of professional models walking around… you can’t top NYC. In fact, I have yet to find a city in the WORLD that tops NYC when it comes to quality of women, quantity of women, and ease of picking up. Truly a playground for any single man.

About Mark Manson

Mark Manson is a writer and dating coach from Boston. He spends most of his time abroad visiting exotic places and fornicating with exotic women. He's also the creator of the acclaimed Mark Manson website.

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  1. J

    November 30, 2010 at 11:48 pm

    How come Austin’s 6th St don’t get no honourable mention, isnt that where u grew up?

  2. Joe

    July 18, 2012 at 4:49 pm

    Clearly you’ve never been to Vancouver, BC .. This is a terrible list, the guy who wrote this prob still lives with his parents and bangs a doll every other night

  3. Jeocentric

    September 22, 2012 at 3:39 pm

    Writer is a datatype.

    D.C. may have the ratio, but in terms of quality, you’d be hard pressed to find one 10 at most clubs unless she’s working. Bars: worse. Day Game is a must have in this city. Any artist here would rate nearby Arlington over it. Against Vancouver, Tampa, Atlanta, nether city would stand a chance. Cannot wait until this thesis is done… Packing bags.

    When your website is ready for a professional to write. Have them email me.

  4. Tim

    January 20, 2013 at 9:50 pm

    So far the West Coast is the worst for finding single women. Either they are married, single with a boyfriend, or gay. Seattle and Boise suck. I am ready to move where the ratio is better and more women!

  5. Sal

    February 14, 2013 at 8:12 pm

    Bullshit with Las Vegas or LA. Women in both those cities want one thing and one thing only: a guy with money. Not to mention that in both these cities single men outnumber single women.

  6. Michael Lantz

    July 6, 2013 at 11:58 pm

    How come Baltimore,Maryland is not on that list.They have plenty of single women.

  7. Ivory Simmons

    August 8, 2014 at 2:49 pm

    I would say the big cities is a plus but not,always the best,I do believe the eastern region has more options tho all the schools,more older establishment,less poverty,compared to the west and south,more a single paradise.. The cities I will say Boston Columbus,oh,Atlanta,Seattle,Philly,Houston,Indianapolis,st Louis,definitely beat las vegas,San Fran, New Orleans..

    • VALENTINE2016

      October 29, 2014 at 1:48 am

      I would say that the hottest Girls are from Boulder, Santa Barbara, Chicago, Oregon, San Diego. i do agree with others that Los Angeles, Miami are fake boobs, plastic inside and out.

      • VALENTINE2016

        October 29, 2014 at 1:50 am

        Never went to Austin, Texas but I heard the ladies are really hot there too.

  8. Ivory Simmons

    August 8, 2014 at 2:57 pm

    I would say Columbus oh,Indianapolis,Charlotte,Seattle,Atlanta,Houston,Philly and of course Boston…big cities is a plus but.not always the best,it depends on economics factors,as schools,which are heavy in the eastern region,and public transportation system,where its easy to engaged with people as well as culture,only the Bay Area and Seattle portland only.true urban areas..

  9. Nick

    November 18, 2014 at 7:39 pm

    I can tell you the worst big city. Tampa, Florida. Just short of being a large city the girls think they are diva like with the snobbiness of beverly hills. Girls are average to above average, nothing like San Diego or Rio de Janiero. No surprise as yahoo ranked it 6th snobbiest city in the nation. The average ones (6-7) are slugging down beers for football on the weekend, the 8-10’s think they are real housewives of Orange county. Night life is below mediocre, only positives- cost of living and weather.

    • Anonymous

      October 7, 2015 at 9:58 pm

      I can’t believe you are saying that. I have lived both in Tampa and NYC and let me tell you Tampa is far better in terms of quality and easiness. Sometimes I don’t even have to approach girls in McDinton or Ybor and I get approached by 3-4 girls and these are the hottest girls in the club I am talking about.

  10. dale

    December 1, 2015 at 4:12 am

    Oneida ny has the best looking women!!!

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