Crush it on Tinder with this screenshot-by-screenshot guide
First, as I’ve written before, you should have a good profile that generates opening messages from your matches. If you never receive any openers, except for the occasional hi or what’s up, then you probably need to upgrade your bio and/or your photos.
Trial and error is the best way to go about putting together a profile that helps get you results. I get good feedback from girls on my bio, but I didn’t get to that point until after I put in the time trying different things, evaluating, and then keeping what worked and throwing out what didn’t.
In this case, my match had an inverse reaction to my profile, albeit in a positive way:
From this point it’s just a matter of having a boring back and forth where you figure out the day and time to meet.
Do girls leave you confused as to whether or not they like you?
Let's face it. Girl's don't make it easy for you. She will often send mixed signals leaving you unable to tell if she is being friendly or flirty. If you read her signals wrong you risk rejection and embarrassment. Or worse, you blow it with a girl who wanted to kiss you.
Here is a simple and innocent move that will instantly tell you if you're in the friend zone, or if she's waiting for you to kiss her.
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About Luke Harold Luke Harold is a journalist who has written for publications including the Philadelphia Inquirer and Orange County Register.