The #1 Lethal Mistake That Guys Make In Strip Clubs
During my years living in Sin City, aka Las Vegas, I came to appreciate strip clubs as one of the greatest environments on the planet to pick up gorgeous, exciting and extremely sexual women.
In Vegas, there are an endless variety of bars and nightclubs where I could go to run game on “regular” girls, but I discovered that it’s actually EASIER to build connections with very hot girls in strip clubs (and get laid) – IF you know how to get inside the “stripper mind” and push the right buttons.
Don’t be another customer
I’m going to explain how this whole process works, but for now, in this first installment of my “Strip Club Secrets” column, I’m going to talk about the number one mistake guys make that MURDERS their chances of ever seeing a stripper outside of the club for some real fun – and I’ll share some tips on how to seduce these women, which, for 99% of the male population, will never be anything more than a fantasy to jerk off to.
By the way, if you’re content going to strip clubs just to hang out with your buddies, blow cash on lap dances, and ogle pretty women, that’s fine. Be a customer. You’re donating to a worthy cause: strippers have mouths to feed, bills to pay, loser boyfriends to support, and cocaine habits to maintain. But I want to impress upon you that you CAN charm strippers into meeting up with you outside of the club and getting them into your bed – free of charge – if you simply start using the right tactics.
And once you use these dark arts of seduction to experience the mind-blowing adrenaline rush that is “stripper sex,” believe me, you’re never going to want to return as a customer again. You’ll start going to strip clubs to meet incredibly hot girls that you can BANG before the end of the night … and that’s when your buddies will start looking at you as some type of rock star.
Trust me, this is fun stuff. Now, let’s get down to business.
The Number One Mistake that dudes make in strip clubs by behaving like a customer. In the eyes of a stripper, there are only two types of men in the strip club:
2. Everyone Else.
Your mission – should you choose to accept it – is to completely avoid category #1, and always be firmly planted in category #2. Every stripper I’ve ever hung out with (and I know hundreds) has a firm rule that she will not date/sleep with/party with customers. But they’re up for having fun with everyone else.
And just to set the record straight, let me tell you WHY strippers don’t hook up with customers. It’s not because it’s against the “club rules” (although strippers will use this as an excuse when bonehead customers try to ask them out). And it’s certainly not because they have some moral objection. It’s simply because strippers earn their living from customers. And the BEST customers are the lonely schmucks who come back to the club, over and over again, to spend time with their favorite dancer. A stripper’s “regulars” are her bread and butter.
Now, if the stripper was to accept a customer’s invitation to dinner and a movie, and she slept with him, do you think he’d ever come back to the strip club and blow his kid’s college tuition payment on a bunch of lap dances that leave him with nothing more than a throbbing case of blue balls? Of course not. He’d never spend another dollar inside the club, because he’d only want to see her outside of it. And she’d lose a potential revenue stream.
So before we proceed, let me state this for the record: STRIPPERS DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH CUSTOMERS. If you behave like a customer, you won’t get stripper sex. Ever.
Here are a couple of “customer traits” that you must avoid:
Guys who know how to successfully mack on strippers understand the stripper profession and their “hustle.” There’s an expression in the hip hop world: “game recognizes game.” You’re going to show her that you’ve got game, and you’re going to respect the fact that she has game, too. All strippers do.
You can use this to connect with her. A great way to do this is to mention how you’ve dated a stripper in the past, or have a stripper friend. (If you don’t have any stripper friends or ex-girlfriends, don’t worry…you can make this stuff up. Strippers aren’t exactly known for being completely truthful, either…)
You can say something like…
“My friend Jenny was a dancer for a while, and just from talking to customers every night she became an expert in male psychology. She also became great at sales, y’know, how to close the deal. Jenny knew how to size up a customer in the first few seconds, know what he was looking for, and then she could push the right buttons to get him to relax and spend money. I can tell you’re probably really good at the game, too.”
(Here, you’re paying her a compliment, opening the gateway to a cool conversation, AND demonstrating that you’re not like all the “other guys” in the club.)
I also need to mention, you should never refer to what she does as “stripping”; the correct term is “dancing.” And it’s not a “strip club”; you should refer to it simply as “the club.”
Strippers get touchy about this stuff. Show respect, and she’ll show you respect in return.
Next, during the conversation, show her that you’ve got experience in this world. A great way to do this is to mention a stripper you dated in the past, or a stripper friend of yours. (For the purposes of storytelling, your stripper “friend,” in reality, could simply be some stripper you talked to during a previous visit.)
Here’s another criminally stupid strip club mistake that is often committed by chump customers…
Most guys who spend a considerable amount of time in strip clubs have fallen into his mental trap: they meet a stripper who they feel they have a “connection” with, and suddenly they start thinking about rescuing this girl from her degrading, dead-end occupation and whisking her away to a better life.
So they start telling the girl about how they can HELP her, and support her, and get her out of “the game.” And the whole time she’s nodding her head, while thinking to herself “this guy is a total rookie…I can definitely milk him for a bunch of dances tonight.”
Strippers will tell you about their problems, and how much they “hate” their job, because they KNOW that one of the classic male fantasies is rescuing a beautiful damsel in distress. But the reality is, no one ever forced these girls to work as strippers, and no one’s forcing them to keep doing it. Not only do these girls choose to work at the club – in many cases, they actually pay for the privilege. (In Vegas, strippers will often pay the club a $50-$100 “stage fee” for the right to work a shift.)
And all things considered, it’s a pretty good gig. Don’t think for a moment that being a stripper is a last resort, and that they need to be “rescued.” Most of these girls don’t have a college education. They could be sweating over a hot grill at McDonald’s making minimum wage, or they can cock-tease guys all night at a strip club and make six figures (while drinking and partying the whole time).
So don’t fall into the “white knight” trap – it only makes you look clueless and desperate. Instead, use the conversational tactics in the Secrets Of Strip Club Seduction program to keep things flowing towards a meet-up (after she gets off work)…and then, close the deal and have fun.
Until next time, you can watch a video of mine which contains some of my most closely-guarded secrets on dominating strip clubs and picking up strippers. You can watch it here: Strip Club Seduction EXPOSED
P.S. If you’re a “nice guy” and you think you need to spend a bunch of money on girls to hopefully get them interested in you, this video is going to blow your mind and make you re-think the way you deal with women.
And if you’re a Bad Boy…well, this video is going to show you how to turbo-charge your game and take it to a rock star level…I just want to ask you to use these tactics responsibly, because this is VERY powerful psychological stuff…
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About Dean Cortez Dean Cortez is the creator of M.A.C.K. Tactics, one of the most powerful and respected systems for guys who want to turbo-charge their confidence and dating lives. An author and world traveler, Dean develops his techniques by testing them out on beautiful women around the world. Dean's tactics have been field-tested and proven on hundreds of the world's hottest girls. For more information, including how to get some of his best seduction tactics for free, visit www.MackTactics.net.