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How To Stop Comparing Yourself To Others

Posted July 11, 2019

Comparing yourself to other men can ruin your dating life Do you struggle to approach women in a nightclub because it feels like there are so many guys who are richer and better-looking than you? Perhaps you’re wary about taking up any beautiful woman’s time when there’s so many better dudes out there. This is

Getting your first Girlfriend – The Flirting

Posted July 10, 2019

When it came to getting my first girlfriend, my initial attempts at flirting were a version of what I like to call “the performing clown.” Some guys, when intimidated by women they’re attracted to, freeze, go quiet, and avoid any and all interaction with them. They find women threatening, so they react as if they’re

On Approach Anxiety- Risk is Volatility NOT Loss.

Posted July 10, 2019

I read Howard Marks’ book “The Most Important Thing” a few weeks ago. The book is a collection of interoffice memos within Oaktree Financial (The company he and Warren Buffet run together). The book is interesting for anyone looking to get an insight into what has made Oaktree successful over the years, but it also

How To Be Happy As A Single Man

Posted July 4, 2019

Stop relying on woman to make you happy Avoiding neediness is easier said than done Perhaps you’ve read the hundreds of dating advice articles warning you not to be needy. You’ve seen how often neediness is cited as the least attractive quality a man can show. Yet, you can’t help but feel like you need

Getting Your First Girlfriend – The Basics

Posted July 3, 2019

My first relationship came out of nowhere. I had gotten sick of my appalling (read: non-existent) results with women and had started hitting the gym in a desperate effort to get more attention and have them profess their until-now secret feelings for me. The latter part never happened, but, as a result of me taking

Shut the Fuck Up!!! or How to Use Silence Effectively

Posted July 3, 2019

Today I wanted to address something that is a big sticking point for most guys who are intermediate-advanced (myself and 99% of instructors included). You talk too goddamn much… Once guys learn how to keep a conversation going forever, they forget that sometimes talking more is not the best solution. And that often the more

Should You Keep Your Dating Life Private?

Posted June 27, 2019

How social media can help you attract women Sharing clips of your dates on social media might feel uncomfortable. After all, it’s called ‘private life’ for a reason, right? Maybe you find filming yourself awkward. Perhaps social media seems like a huge egotistical time-suck. Or you’re worried what your date would think of you taking

The Used Car Salesman Frame

Posted June 26, 2019

One of the biggest problems I notice with my private coaching students, is an inability to be persistent enough especially in the early stage of an approach. It’s very common for guys to throw out an opener or even worse a cocky and funny comment or observation and then not following up. Sometimes a guy

Is Speed Dating Any Good For Men?

Posted June 20, 2019

Speed dating is cooler than it used to be Speed dating is marketed as a brilliantly simple and fun way to meet a partner, but has been heavily criticized by men in the past. The main criticism surrounds the lack of hotties. However, just as with online dating, this appears to have changed over the

The Right Mindset

Posted June 19, 2019

People often talk ask me what my mindset is about meeting girls, dating, pick up etc… So I figured I should write a post about what I believe to be the perfect mindset for getting better at pickup. Ready for it? You have to not care, but still do the approaches. And this is where

How To Build Sexual Confidence When You Have No Experience With Women

Posted June 18, 2019

After my first breakup, I was a complete wreck. I remember sitting outside Trafalgar square in London believing I was worthless, that I’d never get another relationship, and that there was something fundamentally wrong and different about me that made my situation uniquely crappy, and uniquely unsolvable. When it came to being a ‘sexual being’