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Tips on Flirting

Posted June 21, 2018

From TSBMag Archive : The Different Styles of Flirting Being able to flirt is absolutely essential if you want to have A-game with women. You can peacock, recite routines and openers, practice inner game, but if you don’t know how to escalate a conversation through flirting then you will always have trouble with women. Competitive Flirting Competitive flirting takes

What if she says, I have a boyfriend?

Posted June 19, 2018

From TSBMag Archive : How to Handle When She Tells You She Has a Boyfriend If you’ve been out on the town for any length of time you are bound to have had the phrase muttered “I have a boyfriend” by some girl you’ve been talking to. I remember for many years this phrase used to be a game

“Closing the Deal” with Women

Posted June 18, 2018

From TSBMag Archive : How and Why You Must Get the “Kiss” I was just watching the movie Glengarry Glen Ross last night, and in probably the best scene of his life, Alec Baldwin states an eternal truth: A-B-C. A-always… B-be… C-closing.Always be closing! Always be closing!! I remember when I first saw the movie, although Alec was talking

3 Tactics to Create “The Vibe” with A Girl

Posted June 12, 2018

From TSBMag Archive : How to Spark the Right “Vibe” with a Woman Having an enjoyable conversation with a girl is the first step towards getting to exactly where you want to go with her. Why does it seem so effortless for some guys and so difficult for you? You know what I mean? Some guys seem to have

How to Handle “Crappy Behavior” From Girls… (without ruining things)

Posted June 12, 2018

From TSBMag Archive : How to Keep Your Self Respect Around Women What do these three situations have in common? 1. You lend a girl money, she tells you she’s going to pay you back in a week, but now a month has gone by, and neither of you have brought it up even though you really need the money.

How to Appear Less Needy When Talking to a Girl

Posted June 7, 2018

From TSBMag Archive : Eliminate Neediness Around Women Do you want to know why girls get so turned on and excited by guys we view as “players,” “jerks,” or “bad boys”? I used to get really confused why a girl would so quickly go home with one of these guys. And I was always obsessed with figuring out “what

How To Get A Girlfriend

Posted June 6, 2018

From TSBMag Archive : How to Find and Keep a Girlfriend You Really Want DISCLAIMER: Why do you want a girlfriend? Do you feel lacking inside, and hope a woman will complete you? Are you lonely and lost, and seek companionship and direction? Do you believe it’s the thing to do because all your friends are doing it? Well,

How to Keep Your Power Edge With Women

Posted June 4, 2018

From TSBMag Archive : Why Women Want a Man Who “Leads” “I’m hungry. Come over to my house. And we’ll head over to The Barnyard for a burger and some beers. Wear something cute and summery.” Most guys would not have the balls to say something like that to a woman with whom they are setting up a first

On the Benefits of Being Shameless

Posted May 30, 2018

From TSBMag Archive : How to Attract a Woman By Being “Direct” with Her When it comes to picking up babes, there are two schools of thought. One school says to approach women “under the radar” in an “indirect” way such as asking for directions, asking for a female opinion on something, or making a situational comment that will

8 “Friend Zone” Traits Killing Your Game

Posted May 28, 2018

From TSBMag Archive : The “Good Boyfriend” Habit (Must Eliminate) My girlfriend would probably describe me a “good” boyfriend. I take good care of her, treat her well, I’m compromising, I pay attention to her, and I listen to her problems and try to help her through them. But here’’ the thing… My girlfriend would NEVER have described any of

Are You Really On A Date?

Posted May 26, 2018

From TSBMag Archive : How to tell if you are having a romantic rendezvous or just hanging out Some women are very hard to read. I know: understatement of the century. But one of the more puzzling features of modern dating is figuring out if you are actually on a date—that is, a rendezvous meant to signal romantic interest,

Should You Date Your Roommate?

Posted January 25, 2018

How to enjoy the romance without the hazards The obvious answer to the question-title is no: you may party with her, allow her to

How To Seduce Your Hot Professor

Posted December 1, 2017

Learning the rules of the game Fraternization between teachers and students is not unheard of in college. In these situations, the relationship is usually between a

Does Your College Major Still Matter?

Posted September 8, 2017

Forty years ago it was expected that a chemistry major would work in an industrial firm after graduating or, if he was pre-med, go on to medical school. Most graduates in the humanities and social sciences became high school teachers or went on to do PhDs. Your major in college used to matter. In the

Why You Are NOT An Anti-Muslim Bigot

Posted August 4, 2017

Hate comes in many forms. There is race hate, religious hate, gender hate, and LGBT hate. People are right to condemn it when they see it. But some people extend such objections to realms of inquiry and debate in which they have no place. The most prominent and worrying example of this phenomenon is the

Are You An Elitist?

Posted July 14, 2017

No group is more hated, despised, and pilloried in America today than the elites. The elites seem to be public enemy number one. Every social problem, from the growth in inequality to the war in Afghanistan, has been attributed to them. Crime, terrorism, failing schools, drug addiction, teenage pregnancy, the national debt—all began with the

Understanding Transactional Sex

Posted July 6, 2017

You may have heard of this. Thousands of young, attractive women do it as a means of supporting themselves. Transactional sex has become something of a craze lately. But the nature of the exchange remains the same as it was when our species went from scattered hunter-gatherers to more organized Big Man societies: it still

Is Social Media Taking Over Your Life?

Posted June 29, 2017

It is easy to lose yourself in social media without realizing it. If you feel sometimes that your life consists entirely of going from Facebook to Whatapp to SnapChat to Twitter, you are not alone. Millions of people, young and old, feel the same. It is wrong to say that all human relationships have become

Making Sense Of Cultural Appropriation

Posted June 16, 2017

Cultural appropriation refers to members of a larger, wealthier, and more powerful group taking ideas, art, and artifacts from people of a historically oppressed and marginalized group. It is important to put it this way because the words “cultural appropriation” confuse and mislead people about the issues involved in this act. The exchanges, influences, and

Why Free Speech Is Worth Fighting For

Posted June 8, 2017

Free speech on college campuses is in danger. As a college man, you may have only taken a passing interest in the issue, but things have come to such a head that the ability of anyone to dissent, object, criticize, or offer even the mildest alternative point of view is under threat. News emerged a

Drawing The Lines On Parental Interference

Posted March 10, 2017

Of all the relationships we form in our lives, the one with our parents is the most complex. It is the longest, and it can be at various times easy, joyful, difficult, or infuriating. The great problem is that in those first few years in which your parents nourish and protect you, and the next

How To Become A 21st Century Autodidact

Posted February 10, 2017

Go to college! Get an education! The above sentiments are commonly found in company with one another. In the present age, pursuing a university degree is bound up with the enrichment of mind. We have taken a curious turn in the last half century. The increasing access and availability of post-secondary schooling has made going