What She Thinks of Your Penis Size
Admit it: you want to know about how the size of your member is received, and how important it is to be big. What women really think may surprise you.
A friend once told me about an encounter of her very sexually experienced sister with a very small penis. When her then-boyfriend revealed himself to her for the first time, even she didn’t know what to do – it was just so tiny. She couldn’t even give him a proper hand-job, instead having to use two fingers and her thumb.
This anecdote shows the reaction of most women to the poorly-endowed: she will do what she can, but then tell everyone she knows about it amid much laughter. Expect to be laughed at especially if you are apologetic or embarrassed about it, but you might manage to get away with her not noticing your size if you act confident and make sure to pleasure her well.
There’s another thing to be aware of if you’re on the small side: we’ve all heard about men who overcompensate for what’s in their pants. If you’re one of those men, stop! She will laugh at you when she realizes the reason for your purring Ferrari. If you’re comfortable with the size of your bits without having to overcompensate, she will likely be fine with it too.
You may think she’ll be impressed if you whip it out to reveal you’re well-endowed enough for a lucrative career in porn. You would be right in thinking this – she will be totally awestruck if you’re larger than she’s used to. But she might feel something else: dread. While it’s pretty well impossible for it not to fit, it might hurt her. To make sure she’s at ease and it won’t be a painful experience, loosen her up with plenty of foreplay first.
Of course she is still going to think about your size and tell her friends about it afterwards, but if you’re of a pretty average size, there’s not going to be much to tell. Besides, to paraphrase an old cliché, your size is immaterial and what matters to her is what you do with it. Give her a good experience and it won’t matter how big, small or average you are.
It’s hard to know if you’re a decent size if all your information about penises has come from watching the monstrous members featured in porn. If you’re eight inches, you may think that’s a great size from your observations of the world of pornography, but you’re larger than most. If you’ve measured yourself at five inches, you’re likely to be confronted with images double your size – but you’re actually pretty normal.
Okay, five inches is on the smaller side of normal, but still perfectly fine and able to do its job.
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About Natasha Abrahams Natasha Abrahams is a writer and journalism student from Melbourne, Australia. When she is not busy with being a principal writer on Weekendnotes or skipping lectures, she can be found emptying her wallet at the nearest shopping centre. You can read more from Natasha at: http://mensstyleandfashion.com/