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Top 10 Things Women Want You To Do In Bed


From interviewing beautiful women for the Sex God Method and from talking with female friends informally, I know there are a few things which almost EVERY woman wishes men did more of in bed.

Here are the top 10:


This is far and away the biggest thing women wish men did more of in bed.

Most men don’t do this – instead, they clumsily plow straight to intercourse as fast as possible.

This means that “foreplay” usually consists of a few minutes of obligatory kissing, followed by a few minutes of obligatory breast stimulation and fingering her, followed by a few minutes of obligatory cunnilingus  or even annilungus until the ultimate goal of intercourse is reached.

This isn’t what women want!

Above anything else, women get turned on by anticipation. And the longer you draw it out, the more intense her eventual orgasm will be.

If you can give her an orgasm before you penetrate her, then it’s GUARANTEED to be good sex in her book, even if you don’t last as long as you’d like.

And on top of this, giving her an orgasm will make her more responsive and MUCH more likely to have another orgasm during intercourse.

Sex becomes better for you, and for her.


Most men only pay attention to the “obvious” spots on a woman’s body when trying to give her sexual pleasure, like the breasts, clitoris and g-spot. But women don’t want you to ONLY pay attention to these spots … they want you to pay attention to their WHOLE BODY.

This is because there are other “hidden” erogenous zones on her body which can give her pleasure, and which can actually make her MORE sensitive to vaginal stimulation.

Most men don’t know about these … but if you’re one of the rare men who does, then she’ll be screaming your name in pleasure.


We’ve been told that “women don’t mind if you don’t last that long in bed, as long as you’re good with your fingers” and that it’s OK for a man to only last a few minutes in bed.

This is a big steaming heap of BS.

Women HATE it when a man shoots off too soon because it prevents them from having orgasms.

How would you feel if a woman got YOU close to an orgasm, then all of a sudden stopped, rolled over, and went to sleep?

You need to know how to last 30 minutes in bed AT THE MINIMUM.

If you really want to drive women wild, then you should learn how to last over an hour in bed.

And of course you can have a “quickie” once in a while, but most of the time women will need a minimum of 30 minutes of intercourse to have multiple orgasms.


From many conversations and interviews with women I know the typical man in bed does almost no teasing. He just plows forwards directly to his goal of intercourse with no finesse, just doing the minimum necessary to get to penetration.

What women want is for you to build up to a sexual action with teasing until she’s practically begging you for it. THEN give her the gratification. For example, with oral sex most men just dive right in.

What would turn her on much more is if you kiss up her inner thighs, and breathe warmly on her vagina. Then, so lightly she can barely feel it, run your tongue over her clitoris.

Or even try this amazing massage technique to get her totally aroused.  Or even touch this weird little spot and drive her wild.

Do this until she’s pleading with you to give her more and THEN give her the gratification. She’ll enjoy it about a hundred times more.

This leads into the next things women want more of in bed, which is…


I’m constantly amazed by how many men have told me that they don’t give women oral sex that often, or that they don’t do it at all.

The justification which I’ve heard so many times is “it’s OK, I’m good with my fingers.”

This is like a girl telling you “I don’t give blowjobs … but it’s OK, I’m good with my hands.”

It’s just not the same.

If you know how to do oral sex right right, it is the fastest and easiest way to give her orgasms.

Plus, once you make her finish through oral sex she’ll be MUCH more responsive during intercourse … and much more likely to go down on you.

Give your girlfriend plenty of oral sex, and she will love you for it.   In fact, here are three strange new oral sex positions she’ll love.


Most men are afraid to say ANYTHING or make any noise in bed because they’re afraid the woman will think they’re cheesy or weird.

But if they were privy to these private female conversations, they would know the exact OPPOSITE is true.

A woman gets weirded out by a guy who is completely silent in bed, because she doesn’t know whether or not he’s even enjoying it. It’s a turn-off.

Think about it: would you be turned on more by a woman who lay there as silent and still as a corpse, or a woman who screaming your name in pleasure and telling you she loved your cock?

You need to learn how to be vocal in bed, and how to turn a woman on through sexual talk.


Have you ever had an orgasm while looking into your partners eyes the entire time?

It is one of the most intensely pleasurable experiences you can have.

The sexual eye contact heightens the feelings of pleasure and connection beyond anything I can describe in words. And any woman who has experienced this before CRAVES more of it.

Avoid the typical routine of turning off all the lights and just grunting and pounding away in the dark. Start to work some eye contact into your sexual encounters, and see how much it turns her on.

Of course you have to learn how to do this in the RIGHT way … but once you do, she’ll love it.


After sex, she is completely open and vulnerable to you.

Most guys squander this time though by ignoring her after sex, or by just going to sleep.

Women don’t “come down” from sexual pleasure as quickly as men though, so she’s going to want you to hold her and be close to her while she does.

Believe me, she’ll enjoy sex MUCH more if you just spend a few minutes doing this.

Plus, what most guys don’t know is that after sex is the best time to strengthen her sexual bond to you, so that she wants to have sex MORE in the future.

If you’re doing the right things here, you’ll never have to beg and plead for sex because her sexual bond to you will be so strong she’ll be eager for sex whenever you want it.


Men are obsessed with “putting in a good performance” in bed.

And to some extent this is not a bad thing … you do want to give her sexual pleasure and orgasms. But if you need to be “performing” for her ALL THE TIME, then this can be a big turn-off for her.

She wants a guy who can also set up situations where she can perform for HIM.

For example, almost ALL women love giving blowjobs if the guy can get her thinking about them the right way.

And if you can get her to “perform” for you like this – especially if she’s doing something she usually doesn’t do for other guys – it’ll be a huge sexual thrill to her.

Think about the rush you get from giving her a huge orgasm … this is what she’ll experience if you know how bypass her inhibitions and get her to “perform” for you in bed.


We, as men, typically find it hard to seek out coaching to become better in bed.

Our egos get in the way, and we like to think that we know it all even if our sex lives could use a lot of improvement.

From a woman’s perspective, this doesn’t make a whole lot of sense. After all, to learn ANY other less important skill, you would seek out information on how to do it. I mean, would you try to learn a sport or martial art by just figuring everything out yourself? Or would you read and watch some things to learn the basics, and get a COACH to help you?

This is exactly what women wish you would do in the bedroom. Because no man was born knowing all the secrets of giving women orgasms, and we all have to learn.

Most men learn the hard way, by arduous trial and error over the course of many years. And the thing that sucks is … it’s not even guaranteed that you EVER get better learning sexual skills this way.

There have been men trying to figure this stuff out for over 20 years, who are STILL bad in bed. Then, there are the smart men who take the shortcut, and become great in bed the easy way.

If you would like to take the “shortcut” to becoming a bedroom legend, I recommend that you give the Sex God Method a try. It contains all the secrets to giving women orgasms which I learned over years and years of totally dedicating my life to sexual improvement.



About daniel-rose

Daniel Rose is the author of the Sex God Method. He teaches men simple yet powerful ways to give women sexual pleasure through using her "Four Orgasm Triggers." Once you know what these are, and how to use each one, giving her an orgasm becomes as easy as flipping a switch or pressing a button.

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  4. Dupree

    July 13, 2010 at 12:07 pm


    I recently talked to my girlfriend about making her cum before we started fucking. She didn’t like the idea. She asked how I’d like it if I came and then immediately tried to fuck.

    Best to you,


  5. baz

    July 14, 2010 at 6:36 pm

    Dupree, I find that hard to believe
    I’ve found the oppposite to be the case, i.e. giving her an orgasm before intercourse makes the sex better (for her, and often for myself too) and makes it easier for her to reach orgasm again, whether it be through intercourse or other means

    • Dupree

      July 14, 2010 at 9:16 pm

      I was only reporting. It is true; not to say that most women feel this way. Perhaps my girlfriend is the exception.



      • Default

        July 16, 2010 at 3:40 am

        So your girlfriend only has one orgasm during sex usually?

        I don’t believe she said that at all… Guys cum once, then we’re done till we can recharge.
        Girls can have multiple orgasms and after each one shes more sensitive and it feels even better.
        Some get that little feeling as if you want to stop.. but as soon as the pleasure comes back again(you don’t stop) she won’t be complaining.

        My girls never complain.. I don’t think a girl on earth wouldn’t want more then one orgasm.

        I need to get out of my shell and speak more during sex. Just feels awkward.

        • Anonymous

          January 21, 2012 at 3:41 am

          actualy studies show that becuase guys cum becaus of a muscle that even guys can have multiple orgasms to but its been very rare in this case

        • Samantha

          May 12, 2012 at 9:18 pm

          I want to have an orgasm or two before intercourse, I am thrilled my boyfriend knows this. After the first couple they come in waves I cant hardly control myself then we go for intercourse lol Ive bucked him off because I was so overwhelmed I couldn’t handle anymore.
          Sex with him is unexplainable, he is just older and wiser than me (29yrs older than me) and knows if he takes care of me, I take care of him if not then I wake him up with a bj or sex.
          Lol We might argue outside the bedroom but we are made for each other behind closed doors!

      • Wally

        February 20, 2014 at 9:29 pm

        I am male 20 years old, and was dating a 18 years old and she had a looooong cooldown period after making her orgasm with my fingers.
        She said her pussy get “too sensitive” after it.

        Also, I lasted some loong 20 minutes or so on normal penetration intercourse and she never had an orgasm that way.
        I lift and exercise everyday, how long its supposed to take???
        What I need to be, a huge muscular pornstar just to make her cum?? kinda frustrating 🙁
        Also.. i dont see much women getting orgasms on porn movies.

  6. Johnny

    September 13, 2011 at 1:20 pm

    The key is always – more and more of oral sex! Women prefer oral sex more than any other form of sex. You can learn how to do cunnilingus at and make her always come back begging for more 😉

    • Terry Bull

      October 24, 2012 at 3:58 am

      SPAM alert. Should have know the learn2lick site would be a gimmick to sell a book. Well I don’t like your selling approach, so go spam yourself.

  7. Jacob John Smith

    February 14, 2012 at 3:22 am

    Most men clumsily plow in to intercourse as fast as possible? Well I’m baffled. Maybe they’re virgins.

  8. michael

    May 12, 2012 at 12:11 pm

    I was sexually abused as a child. I don’t like sex at all. 15 years of therapy didn’t help. I am happier now that I am older and enjoy wonderful friendships without anyone thinking they are going to get anything else from me.

  9. agboola

    October 20, 2012 at 8:50 pm

    i love orale sex i love to give to somone i love

  10. Andy

    February 22, 2013 at 9:34 am

    This is what I run into 100% of the time, after I go down on her and she gets off, she is done! She won’t let me even touch her vagina let alone have sex after! Now for me I think it’s the best thing to give her oral because it turns me on like nothing else! I’m extremely turned on after she has an orgasm but can’t do anything because she is to sensitive even me touching her breasts makes her body twitch and shake! Any advice on getting her back into having sex after?

    • Sam

      November 7, 2014 at 8:49 am

      Let her have a cool-down period, but keep the passion there – things like kissing, a little bit of teasing after a while, etc – will help in cases like these. Just act like you’re starting again, but go slower 🙂

  11. Married 11 yrs

    June 9, 2013 at 12:44 am

    Kiss her neck. Kiss her tell her how much u want her. Tell her how u can’t wait to be inside her.
    How sweet she smells how wet she feels how hard u are. Y’all like to here us talk.. Well so do we..

  12. Pascal

    January 2, 2014 at 3:10 am

    This article sounds like it’s been written by a frustrated female who had sex with fast shooters, clumsy dumb fucks and retarded punks .. lol .. would the author be a little mix of a these ? ..Good thing for you, Daniel, if you finaly understood the basics. I’ll go back roaming around for other specifics .. Thanks for this not so great article.

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  14. Damian

    September 15, 2015 at 9:33 pm

    I just wanted to say something.
    Hope I don’t sound like an idiot.


  15. Damian

    September 15, 2015 at 9:51 pm

    I’m a with a girl who is 22. The thing is, I’m 38.
    She says she is madly in love with me.
    I’m nuts over her myself.
    I’ve been in relationships that took time and ended bad.
    Not cause of laim sex but actually cheating. I’ve so far felt it was cause I gave to much of myself and cared to much.

    My girlfriend now gets weak, leg spasms, can’t stop looking in my eyes, holds me tight and kisses me like there is no tmrw.

    I’m thrilled about that.

    How do I stop questioning her love after all I have gone through?

    I don’t want to lose her.

    Any advice? Please. Anyone.

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