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Top 10 Things Women Want You To Do In Bed


From interviewing beautiful women for the Sex God Method and from talking with female friends informally, I know there are a few things which almost EVERY woman wishes men did more of in bed. Here are the top 10:


This is far and away the biggest thing women wish men did more of in bed. Most men don’t do this – instead, they clumsily plow straight to intercourse as fast as possible.

Woman in bed

Woman in bed

This means that “foreplay” usually consists of a few minutes of obligatory kissing, followed by a few minutes of obligatory breast stimulation, followed by a few minutes of obligatory cunnilingus until the ultimate goal of intercourse is reached. This isn’t what women want!

If you can give her an orgasm before you penetrate her, then it’s GUARANTEED to be good sex in her book, even if you don’t last as long as you’d like. And on top of this, giving her an orgasm will make her more responsive and MUCH more likely to have another orgasm during intercourse. Sex becomes better for you, and for her.


Most men only pay attention to the “obvious” spots on a woman’s body when trying to give her sexual pleasure, like the breasts, clitoris and g-spot. But women don’t want you to ONLY pay attention to these spots … they want you to pay attention to their WHOLE BODY.

This is because there are 16 other “hidden” erogenous zones on her body which can give her pleasure, and which can actually make her MORE sensitive to vaginal stimulation. Most men don’t know about these … but if you’re one of the rare men who does, then she’ll be screaming your name in pleasure.


We’ve been told that “women don’t mind if you don’t last that long in bed, as long as you’re good with your fingers” and that it’s OK for a man to only last a few minutes in bed. This is a big steaming heap of BS.

Women HATE it when a man shoots off too soon because it prevents them from having orgasms. How would you feel if a woman got YOU close to an orgasm, then all of a sudden stopped, rolled over, and went to sleep?

You need to know how to last 30 minutes in bed AT THE MINIMUM. If you really want to drive women wild, then you should learn how to last over an hour in bed. And of course you can have a “quickie” once in a while, but most of the time women will need a minimum of 30 minutes of intercourse to have multiple orgasms.


From many conversations and interviews with women I know the typical man in bed does almost no teasing. He just plows forwards directly to his goal of intercourse with no finesse, just doing the minimum necessary to get to penetration.

What women want is for you to build up to a sexual action with teasing until she’s practically begging you for it. THEN give her the gratification. For example, with oral sex most men just dive right in. What would turn her on much more is if you kiss up her inner thighs, and breathe warmly on her vagina. Then, so lightly she can barely feel it, run your tongue over her clitoris.

Do this until she’s pleading with you to give her more and THEN give her the gratification. She’ll enjoy it about a hundred times more. This leads into the next things women want more of in bed, which is…

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I’m constantly amazed by how many men have told me that they don’t give women oral sex that often, or that they don’t do it at all. The justification which I’ve heard so many times is “it’s OK, I’m good with my fingers.”

This is like a girl telling you “I don’t give blowjobs … but it’s OK, I’m good with my hands.” It’s just not the same. If you know how to do it right, giving her oral sex is the fastest and easiest way to give her orgasms. Plus, once you make her finish through oral sex she’ll be MUCH more responsive during intercourse … and much more likely to go down on you. Give your girlfriend plenty of oral sex, and she will love you for it.   (Learn the next 5)

About daniel-rose

Daniel Rose is the author of the Sex God Method. He
teaches men simple yet powerful ways to give women sexual pleasure through using her “Four Orgasm Triggers.” Once you know what these are, and how to use each one, giving her an orgasm becomes as easy as flipping a switch or pressing a button.

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  4. Dupree

    July 13, 2010 at 12:07 pm


    I recently talked to my girlfriend about making her cum before we started fucking. She didn’t like the idea. She asked how I’d like it if I came and then immediately tried to fuck.

    Best to you,


  5. baz

    July 14, 2010 at 6:36 pm

    Dupree, I find that hard to believe
    I’ve found the oppposite to be the case, i.e. giving her an orgasm before intercourse makes the sex better (for her, and often for myself too) and makes it easier for her to reach orgasm again, whether it be through intercourse or other means

    • Dupree

      July 14, 2010 at 9:16 pm

      I was only reporting. It is true; not to say that most women feel this way. Perhaps my girlfriend is the exception.



      • Default

        July 16, 2010 at 3:40 am

        So your girlfriend only has one orgasm during sex usually?

        I don’t believe she said that at all… Guys cum once, then we’re done till we can recharge.
        Girls can have multiple orgasms and after each one shes more sensitive and it feels even better.
        Some get that little feeling as if you want to stop.. but as soon as the pleasure comes back again(you don’t stop) she won’t be complaining.

        My girls never complain.. I don’t think a girl on earth wouldn’t want more then one orgasm.

        I need to get out of my shell and speak more during sex. Just feels awkward.

        • Anonymous

          January 21, 2012 at 3:41 am

          actualy studies show that becuase guys cum becaus of a muscle that even guys can have multiple orgasms to but its been very rare in this case

        • Samantha

          May 12, 2012 at 9:18 pm

          I want to have an orgasm or two before intercourse, I am thrilled my boyfriend knows this. After the first couple they come in waves I cant hardly control myself then we go for intercourse lol Ive bucked him off because I was so overwhelmed I couldn’t handle anymore.
          Sex with him is unexplainable, he is just older and wiser than me (29yrs older than me) and knows if he takes care of me, I take care of him if not then I wake him up with a bj or sex.
          Lol We might argue outside the bedroom but we are made for each other behind closed doors!

      • Wally

        February 20, 2014 at 9:29 pm

        I am male 20 years old, and was dating a 18 years old and she had a looooong cooldown period after making her orgasm with my fingers.
        She said her pussy get “too sensitive” after it.

        Also, I lasted some loong 20 minutes or so on normal penetration intercourse and she never had an orgasm that way.
        I lift and exercise everyday, how long its supposed to take???
        What I need to be, a huge muscular pornstar just to make her cum?? kinda frustrating 🙁
        Also.. i dont see much women getting orgasms on porn movies.

  6. Johnny

    September 13, 2011 at 1:20 pm

    The key is always – more and more of oral sex! Women prefer oral sex more than any other form of sex. You can learn how to do cunnilingus at and make her always come back begging for more 😉

    • Terry Bull

      October 24, 2012 at 3:58 am

      SPAM alert. Should have know the learn2lick site would be a gimmick to sell a book. Well I don’t like your selling approach, so go spam yourself.

  7. Jacob John Smith

    February 14, 2012 at 3:22 am

    Most men clumsily plow in to intercourse as fast as possible? Well I’m baffled. Maybe they’re virgins.

  8. michael

    May 12, 2012 at 12:11 pm

    I was sexually abused as a child. I don’t like sex at all. 15 years of therapy didn’t help. I am happier now that I am older and enjoy wonderful friendships without anyone thinking they are going to get anything else from me.

  9. agboola

    October 20, 2012 at 8:50 pm

    i love orale sex i love to give to somone i love

  10. Andy

    February 22, 2013 at 9:34 am

    This is what I run into 100% of the time, after I go down on her and she gets off, she is done! She won’t let me even touch her vagina let alone have sex after! Now for me I think it’s the best thing to give her oral because it turns me on like nothing else! I’m extremely turned on after she has an orgasm but can’t do anything because she is to sensitive even me touching her breasts makes her body twitch and shake! Any advice on getting her back into having sex after?

    • Sam

      November 7, 2014 at 8:49 am

      Let her have a cool-down period, but keep the passion there – things like kissing, a little bit of teasing after a while, etc – will help in cases like these. Just act like you’re starting again, but go slower 🙂

  11. Married 11 yrs

    June 9, 2013 at 12:44 am

    Kiss her neck. Kiss her tell her how much u want her. Tell her how u can’t wait to be inside her.
    How sweet she smells how wet she feels how hard u are. Y’all like to here us talk.. Well so do we..

  12. Pascal

    January 2, 2014 at 3:10 am

    This article sounds like it’s been written by a frustrated female who had sex with fast shooters, clumsy dumb fucks and retarded punks .. lol .. would the author be a little mix of a these ? ..Good thing for you, Daniel, if you finaly understood the basics. I’ll go back roaming around for other specifics .. Thanks for this not so great article.

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  14. Damian

    September 15, 2015 at 9:33 pm

    I just wanted to say something.
    Hope I don’t sound like an idiot.


  15. Damian

    September 15, 2015 at 9:51 pm

    I’m a with a girl who is 22. The thing is, I’m 38.
    She says she is madly in love with me.
    I’m nuts over her myself.
    I’ve been in relationships that took time and ended bad.
    Not cause of laim sex but actually cheating. I’ve so far felt it was cause I gave to much of myself and cared to much.

    My girlfriend now gets weak, leg spasms, can’t stop looking in my eyes, holds me tight and kisses me like there is no tmrw.

    I’m thrilled about that.

    How do I stop questioning her love after all I have gone through?

    I don’t want to lose her.

    Any advice? Please. Anyone.

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