Tips for Getting Better in Bed (day 29)
We are at the 29th day of our 31 Days to Better Game series. Yesterday we talked about managing a relationship. Even though many men don’t set out to enter a relationship… that’s where they end up. This is because many of the guys get addicted to the steady sex they are getting for the first time in their life.
But you don’t need a relationship to get steady sex. What you need is to be a great lover. Today’s lesson will give you some vital tips to getting better in bed.
Tips for Getting Better in Bed by Bobby Rio
If you want to have the ability to call a girl up every night of the week for a late night booty call; you need to be good in bed.
It doesn’t matter how great of a pick-up artist you are; if you don’t perform in the bedroom you will never be able to create a life of unlimited options. Sexual options with women stems from building up a network of women who love having sex with you. Women who still want to sleep with you even after they realize that you’re not boyfriend material. That is true sexual power.
In this lesson I want to give you guys some tips for improving this area of your life. I recently wrote a post about becoming a better lover where I discussed the art of reading the signs that a woman is giving you and continuing to push her in that direction.
Above all this is the number one trait of a good lover. You need to be able to recognize what a woman is enjoying. You need to tailor everything to the girl you’re having sex with at this particular moment. You need to make her feel like you know her inside and out. Even if she knows you’re a player, she has to feel an intense sexual connection with you.
This starts with the kiss. If she is a slow passionate kisser, slow your style down so your tongues mesh together. If she’s an aggressive and dominant kisser… sit back and follow her lead. She’ll walk away thinking you were the best kisser in the world.. simply because you mirrored her style.
You’ll need to increase your stamina. If you want a mind blowing sexual session it has to last more than ten minutes. If you know you’ve got a habit of finishing quickly than make sure you extend the foreplay. Use your hands and mouth to create intense sexual tension. Explore every area of her body until she is practically begging for it. Most girls really enjoy receiving oral sex… learn to read the signs she is giving you and get her pussy gushing from the oral.
But even after some powerful foreplay you need to follow up an even more powerful lay. Increase your stamina and last longer by focusing on pleasing her rather than how good you feel, using breathing patterns, use positions that you’re less likely to finish with, and by practicing. You also want to build up your energy level as well as increasing your testosterone level which will only fuel your fire in the bedroom.
Everything listed above are the fundamentals needed to become a better lover. Below I’ve listed some general tips to improve the overall experience.
More tips to be a better lover
1. Shave. Having stubble on your face can irritate her and make things like kissing and oral sex a lot less pleasurable for her.
2. Groom Yourself. The more you take care of your body the more likely she’ll be inclined to want to give you oral sex.
3. Smell Good. Wearing a nice smelling cologne can intensify the sexual desire she feels for you. Just a small spray is best… or go for that just out of the shower smell.
4. Give a good massage. Having a little knowledge of some sexually erotic zones of a woman’s body will go a long way. Watch this video on giving an erotic hand massage or this video on giving a foot massage.
5. Aim for the G-spot. Don’t obsess about the g-spot. But having an idea of where it is and how to hit it will increase your likely hood of making her cum. If you’re clueless about the G-spot read an article about how to find the g-spot.
About Bobby Rio I'm Bobby Rio, one of the founders of TSB. I tend to write about what is on my mind so you'll find a mix of self development, social dynamics and dating articles/experiences. For a collection of some of my favorite articles check them out.