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About Ben Kissam American coach and sports psych based in Germany. I use psychology tools to make informed decisions about dating and life.

Guys: Here’s How To Deal With Big Personalities

Posted September 26, 2018

A girl with a big personality is loud, outspoken, and outgoing. She’s often social and unafraid to speak her mind, even when meeting strangers. Oh, and she’s usually re ...

What To Expect When Dating Abroad- Guide For Men

Posted September 15, 2018

Living or studying abroad can open you up to a whole new experience, and that includes dating. You’ll meet new people, go out to new bars, find new girls, and hopefully have ...

5 Reasons She’s Suddenly Ignoring You- Can You Fix It?

Posted August 31, 2018

Why Girls Stop Responding to Your Texts Fellas, we’ve all been in this predicament. It’s no fun, but it’s one we need to talk about. You know the situation. You ...

10 Cocky/Funny Pick Up Lines To Use On Girls

Posted August 20, 2018

10 Examples of Cocky Funny Flirting Do you call yourself a pickup artist? Or do you aspire to become one? A good pickup line is like a good mixed drink; a good mix of quality ingre ...

She Ended It- So Why Is She Still Texting You?

Posted August 10, 2018

The Honest Truth, And 3 Scenarios That Explain Her Behavior Women are notorious for saying one thing and doing another. Not that men don’t do the same thing, but this behavio ...

When A Woman Wants To Take It Slow- 6 Tips & How To Deal

Posted August 3, 2018

6 Tips & A Counterintuitive Solution For Speeding Things Up One of those punches to the gut that all men experience at some point. “I like you, but I think we should take ...

How To Know If You’re Misreading Her Signs- 5 Keys

Posted July 2, 2018

These 5 Keys Will Let You Know If You’ve Misread Her Intentions The worst feeling in the world is not knowing where you stand with a woman you like. Are you misreading her si ...

5 Tips For Dating Women Online/Through Apps

Posted June 19, 2018

5 Tips For Dating Women Online/Through Apps Ask any of your platonic lady friends- most guys suck at using dating apps. They create profiles that come off as arrogant, douchey, or ...

How To Fill Out Your Dating Profile For Guys (5 Mistakes)

Posted May 11, 2018

Gentlemen. It’s time for us to audit ourselves and take inventory on something very important to single men- Our dating profiles. How are you filling out your dating profile? ...

How To Show A Girl You’re Into Her Subtly

Posted April 23, 2018

How to Avoid Showing Too Much Interest The worst thing you can do when you’re into a girl? Show her you’re a bit too into her. But how do you let her know without sendi ...