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All posts by Rob J.

About Rob J.

Rob J. is a writer and dating instructor in New York City. Themes that resonate in both his teaching and writing are masculinity, genuineness, rational self-interest, and general awesomeness.
  • The Secret to Attracting Women Without Thinking: An Excerpt from Rob’s Upcoming Book

    I just finalized my upcoming e-book “The 4 Elements of Game:: Balance Your Sexiest Features to Attract the Girls You REALLY Want” and want to share with TSB a section of the book on “Inspiration.” To attract...

    • Posted November 28, 2016
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  • getting a date on tinder
    The 9 Most Deadly Tinder Mistakes (Part 1)

    9 Mistakes EVERY Guy Makes on Tinder Tinder is modern dating’s equivalent to the 1849 Gold Rush, in which hundreds of thousands of “forty-niners” flocked to California to see if the tales of “quick and easy” fortune...

    • Posted August 5, 2016
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  • Why Girls Lose Interest

    Why Girls Get Bored and Lose Interest in Guys For women, attraction works much like a “thermostat,” while for men it works more like a “switch.” Men IMMEDIATELY know if they’re attracted to a woman, while it...

    • Posted January 29, 2016
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  • First Date Ideas

    A first date is as much about making a statement with your choice of setting as it is about giving off a good first impression of yourself. As the man, it’s your job to take charge and...

    • Posted January 29, 2016
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  • The “Point” of Men’s Fashion

    Have you ever thought about why suits are considered formal? Ever wonder why men traditionally wear tuxedos on their wedding day? Or how about why celebrities (usually under the guidance of a stylist) don’t just wear t-shirts...

    • Posted October 8, 2014
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  • Think This Way, Get Girls

    Money, power, and looks: all assets in the dating game, yet they’re not as powerful as what’s going on between your ears. How you think really is the deciding factor as to whether or not you will...

    • Posted August 9, 2013
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  • Why Some People Hate Men’s Dating Advice

    Soulmate is a soothing word, a pacifying word, a word connoting promise and future and happily ever afters. There’s a soulmate for everyone, so the promise goes. Be patient. Swear by words like fate and destiny. And...

    • Posted August 2, 2013
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  • The Realities of Breaking Up

    I must begin with a confession. Even though I’m a self-proclaimed “dating expert,” my expertise doesn’t extend much beyond attracting women and getting into relationships. Once I’m dating a girl, I’m not much better than anyone else....

    • Posted July 30, 2013
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  • No One is Above the Fundamentals

    The guy who needs to read this article most is the guy who’s already pretty damn good with women. And he probably won’t. Most guys who start achieving success with women cut themselves off from taking advice,...

    • Posted July 23, 2013
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  • Transform Yourself into a Success Machine

    There is only type of person I’d go into business with: someone who enjoys learning. Most people scoff at the idea of learning once they graduate school. That’s why most people fail at starting their own businesses....

    • Posted July 19, 2013
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  • If I Had to Start All Over: 3 Habits Every Newbie Needs to Adopt

    Someone recently posed an interesting question to me: “If you had to start all over—start from nothing—how would you build yourself up back into a guy who’s good with women?” As someone who’s been writing articles on...

    • Posted July 17, 2013
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