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About Rob J. Rob J. is a writer and dating instructor in New York City. Themes that resonate in both his teaching and writing are masculinity, genuineness, rational self-interest, and general awesomeness.

The Secret to Attracting Women Without Thinking: An Excerpt from Rob’s Upcoming Book

I just finalized my upcoming e-book “The 4 Elements of Game:: Balance Your Sexiest Features to Attract the Girls You REALLY Want” and want to share with TSB a section of the bo ...

The 9 Most Deadly Tinder Mistakes (Part 1)

9 Mistakes EVERY Guy Makes on Tinder Tinder is modern dating?s equivalent to the 1849 Gold Rush, in which hundreds of thousands of ?forty-niners? flocked to California to see if ...

First Date Ideas

A first date is as much about making a statement with your choice of setting as it is about giving off a good first impression of yourself. As the man, it?s your job to take ch ...

The “Point” of Men’s Fashion

Have you ever thought about why suits are considered formal? Ever wonder why men traditionally wear tuxedos on their wedding day? Or how about why celebrities (usually under the gu ...

Think This Way, Get Girls

Money, power, and looks: all assets in the dating game, yet they?re not as powerful as what?s going on between your ears. How you think really is the deciding factor as to whet ...

Why Some People Hate Men’s Dating Advice

Soulmate is a soothing word, a pacifying word, a word connoting promise and future and happily ever afters. There?s a soulmate for everyone, so the promise goes. Be patient. Swear ...