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About Rob J. Rob J. is a writer and dating instructor in New York City. Themes that resonate in both his teaching and writing are masculinity, genuineness, rational self-interest, and general awesomeness.

The Secret to Attracting Women Without Thinking: An Excerpt from Rob’s Upcoming Book

Posted November 28, 2016

I just finalized my upcoming e-book “The 4 Elements of Game:: Balance Your Sexiest Features to Attract the Girls You REALLY Want” and want to share with TSB a section of the bo ...

The 9 Most Deadly Tinder Mistakes (Part 1)

Posted August 5, 2016

9 Mistakes EVERY Guy Makes on Tinder Tinder is modern dating’s equivalent to the 1849 Gold Rush, in which hundreds of thousands of “forty-niners” flocked to California to see ...

Why Girls Lose Interest

Posted January 29, 2016

Why Girls Get Bored and Lose Interest in Guys For women, attraction works much like a “thermostat,” while for men it works more like a “switch.” Men IMMEDIATELY know if the ...

First Date Ideas

Posted January 29, 2016

A first date is as much about making a statement with your choice of setting as it is about giving off a good first impression of yourself. As the man, it’s your job to take char ...

The “Point” of Men’s Fashion

Posted October 8, 2014

Have you ever thought about why suits are considered formal? Ever wonder why men traditionally wear tuxedos on their wedding day? Or how about why celebrities (usually under the gu ...

Think This Way, Get Girls

Posted August 9, 2013

Money, power, and looks: all assets in the dating game, yet they’re not as powerful as what’s going on between your ears. How you think really is the deciding factor as to whet ...

Why Some People Hate Men’s Dating Advice

Posted August 2, 2013

Soulmate is a soothing word, a pacifying word, a word connoting promise and future and happily ever afters. There’s a soulmate for everyone, so the promise goes. Be patient. Swea ...

The Realities of Breaking Up

Posted July 30, 2013

I must begin with a confession. Even though I’m a self-proclaimed “dating expert,” my expertise doesn’t extend much beyond attracting women and getting into relationships. ...

No One is Above the Fundamentals

Posted July 23, 2013

The guy who needs to read this article most is the guy who’s already pretty damn good with women. And he probably won’t. Most guys who start achieving success with women cut th ...

Transform Yourself into a Success Machine

Posted July 19, 2013

There is only type of person I’d go into business with: someone who enjoys learning. Most people scoff at the idea of learning once they graduate school. That’s why most people ...