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About Nick Sparks

Nick Sparks is a professional social and dating coach located in the New York area. His specialties include building genuine and lasting confidence, removing barriers of fear and self doubt in the face of women and social situations, and helping men gain self acceptance and power through unleashing of their sexuality. He's taught hundreds of clients to become genuinely confident, fearless and charming since 2008, and is known for his direct, highly sexual style of game Check out Sparks of Attraction.
  • The WRONG Way to Escalate

    From past articles guys have commented that I make escalation sound extremely simple – because it is – and yet there are still plenty of problems that can be stumbled upon. For example, many guys attempt to...

    • Posted February 26, 2013
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  • How to Escalate

    Not too long ago I wrote an article on WHY you must take things to a more sexual place with a woman you’re interested in, and WHEN to do so – but I never really explained the...

    • Posted February 20, 2013
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  • Breaking the Cycle of Dysfunctional Relationships

    No one gets into dysfunctional relationships on purpose. You start out with the best of intentions and at first everything seems perfect. As you coast through the honeymoon phase that feels like it will never end, you...

    • Posted February 12, 2013
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  • Are You Really Attracted To Her?

    Sometimes you click with another person, sometimes you don’t. It’s actually science. A study done by Swiss biologist Claus Wedekind commonly referred to as the ‘sweaty t-shirt study’ showed that women were attracted by the smell of...

    • Posted February 8, 2013
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  • Why I Can’t Wait to Get Older

    How could I forget my first year of college? All of a sudden I was surrounded by more girls my age than I knew what to do with; this had to be heaven. I excitedly went to...

    • Posted January 31, 2013
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  • Why You Have to Escalate

    A woman will give you some signals when she’s attracted to you, consciously or not. These signals include nervousness, strong eye contact, filling in the blanks in conversation (you’re leaving blanks for her to fill right?), turning...

    • Posted January 29, 2013
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  • The Only Style Rules that Matter

    Fashion cycles are neverending. Some of us are on the cutting edge of them, while others couldn’t care less. Like it or not though, we will be judged on our appearance. It isn’t without good reason either;...

    • Posted December 26, 2012
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  • Why Her Beauty Is Overrated

    One of the biggest problems that guys I work with have is the issue of putting beautiful women on a pedestal. Society, for thousands of years, has carried this idea that beautiful women are the most valuable...

    • Posted December 18, 2012
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  • Why Men are the Selectors

    Our society teaches a fairly simple process when it comes to attraction and seduction: First, the man demonstrates his value, either through his wit, humor, or by doing something amazing – like having a car that turns...

    • Posted December 12, 2012
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  • Why What You Say Doesn’t Matter

    I can yell “it doesn’t matter what you say” from a the top of a mountain every day for the rest of my life, but it still won’t do much good to overcome the monumental cultural focus...

    • Posted December 5, 2012
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  • Why Social Skills Aren’t Everything

    Guys often focus on their social skills when they want to improve their social life, but it’s easy to forget that there’s there’s a lot more that goes into it than that. They forget that their physical...

    • Posted November 28, 2012
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