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About Nick Sparks Nick Sparks is a professional social and dating coach located in the New York area. His specialties include building genuine and lasting confidence, removing barriers of fear and self doubt in the face of women and social situations, and helping men gain self acceptance and power through unleashing of their sexuality. He's taught hundreds of clients to become genuinely confident, fearless and charming since 2008, and is known for his direct, highly sexual style of game Check out Sparks of Attraction.


    The WRONG Way to Escalate

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    From past articles guys have commented that I make escalation sound extremely simple – because it is – and yet there are still plenty of problems that can be stumbled u ...


    How to Escalate

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    Not too long ago I wrote an article on WHY you must take things to a more sexual place with a woman you?re interested in, and WHEN to do so – but I never really explained the ...


    Breaking the Cycle of Dysfunctional Relationships

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    No one gets into dysfunctional relationships on purpose. You start out with the best of intentions and at first everything seems perfect. As you coast through the honeymoon phase t ...


    Are You Really Attracted To Her?

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    Sometimes you click with another person, sometimes you don?t. It?s actually science. A study done by Swiss biologist Claus Wedekind commonly referred to as the ?sweaty t-shirt stud ...


    Why I Can’t Wait to Get Older

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    How could I forget my first year of college? All of a sudden I was surrounded by more girls my age than I knew what to do with; this had to be heaven. I excitedly went to talk with ...


    Why You Have to Escalate

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    A woman will give you some signals when she?s attracted to you, consciously or not. These signals include nervousness, strong eye contact, filling in the blanks in conversation (yo ...


    The Only Style Rules that Matter

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    Fashion cycles are neverending. Some of us are on the cutting edge of them, while others couldn?t care less. Like it or not though, we will be judged on our appearance. It isn?t wi ...


    Why Her Beauty Is Overrated

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    One of the biggest problems that guys I work with have is the issue of putting beautiful women on a pedestal. Society, for thousands of years, has carried this idea that beautiful ...


    Why Men are the Selectors

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    Our society teaches a fairly simple process when it comes to attraction and seduction: First, the man demonstrates his value, either through his wit, humor, or by doing something a ...


    Why What You Say Doesn’t Matter

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    I can yell ?it doesn?t matter what you say? from a the top of a mountain every day for the rest of my life, but it still won?t do much good to overcome the monumental cultural focu ...