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Posted December 12, 2011

What’s my favorite look that I get from a woman? Well, sexy and excited do top the list on that one, but the third place winner isn’t what you’d expect: My third favorite loo ...

Why Beautiful Women Are Insecure

Posted December 5, 2011

Are Hot Girls Really Insecure? A common theme that I see from guys I work with – and in our culture at large – is the tendency to look at women, especially the most bea ...

Answering The “Player” Question

Posted November 28, 2011

“You’re like, some kind of player, aren’t you?” I hear this one all the time – not only as a question posed by women I meet, but also from clients who get the same qu ...

Dealing with Anger

Posted November 21, 2011

One common thread I find in a lot of the guys I work with is that they’ve been hurt in some sort of relationship, and understandably carry some resentment from it. It could have ...

What Is Love?

Posted November 14, 2011

Most of us know what it’s like to fall in love – the grand honeymoon phase, everything’s perfect… I’m not even taking about strong attraction – ...

What Happened To Our Utopia

Posted November 7, 2011

Imagine being attracted to a woman and going up to her and saying, “Hey I find you attractive and I’d like for us to get to know each other better.” The very next second she ...

Are You A Christian Or A Nick, Part 2: The Remedy

Posted November 1, 2011

Find out whether you’re a Christian or a Nick with part one. Ever notice that dating advice comes in a one-size-fits-all model? ‘This product/service will fix everything fo ...

Are You A Christian Or A Nick, Part 1: The Diagnosis

Posted October 25, 2011

No two guys I’ve worked with have been the same. Well … actually that’s not entirely correct. Let me modify that: When a guy is at his best and his actions and words are ...

How To Always Know When She’s Into You

Posted October 18, 2011

This is an extremely common question: how do you know when she’s attracted to you? There’s certainly a fair amount of information out there on the topic, but before long that i ...

How to Flirt With Your Eyes

Posted October 11, 2011

“The eyes are the windows to the soul” – Traditional English Proverb I’ve found the advice to “make more eye contact” to be relatively unhelpful, especially ...