How to Get a Girl to Like You
By: Bobby Rio
Dating Tips, Seduction Skills, and How to Get That Girl You Want…
There seems to be a mystery around what girls want in a man. Everyone has different advice on what attracts girls, and how to get a girl to like you.
Let’s take the time right now to really break down what girls find attractive in men, how to talk to her , flirt with her, and ultimately, make her your girlfriend.
To answer this we’ll start in two steps.
1. What you do that turns women “off”?
2. What you can do to turn a woman “on”? And how to get a girl to like you.
With this approach it will help us gain some understanding of the criteria that is most important.
a.) To put it simply girls don’t like when a guy acts nervous, shy, insecure, or needy around her. She doesn’t like it when you can’t keep a conversation from stalling out and getting awkward. Women look to men to be the leaders and girls don’t like it when they don’t see you as the kind of guy who can overcome his fears and be a leader. They can smell fear and weakness. And it turns them off greatly.
b.) Women hate men who are afraid to advance with them on a physical level. Our society has dictated that men are the ones who should make the first move, go for a kiss, and takes things to a more “intimate” level. If a woman suspects that you are inexperienced and won’t be able to take control physically, she will most likely not see you as a potential boyfriend or sexual partner.
c.) Girls don’t like guys who seek their approval, compliment them too much, or seem over eager to please them. Women like a man who is a challenge. If a man gives a woman his power to soon, she loses interest and begin searching for a man who will be more of a challenge and who plays harder to get. Women are like cats. A cat will chase a string for hours… but the minute the cat captures the string… it gets bored and wants a new toy.
d.) Women are also turned off by guys who do not take care of their physical appearance. While looks are not as important as most guys think. A woman wants you to take pride in your appearance, and is turned off by guys who are not well groomed, oblivious to the current fashions, or are grossly out of shape.
Understanding these issues, you really can’t blame for not wanting a weak, insecure, inexperienced, boring, or disheveled man. Ask yourself… do you find these sort of girls attractive?
(For more signs whether or not she likes you, read this: how to tell if a girl likes you)
Now let’s talk about… “How to get a girl to like you…”
a.) Girls love a man who makes them feel safe. Women look men to be the leader, the provider, and the more powerful one in the relationship. It turns a woman on when you display your masculine qualities of leadership and ambition. A woman wants a guy she believes can conquer the world… or at least a man she believes has the drive and desire to be the master of his universe.
b.) Girls also like you to be a social man. She wants to see that you have “cool” friends that she will get along with. And she wants to know that you will get along with her friends. Not only that, but she loves a man who is the center of attention and who other girls are attracted to. She wants you to be “pre-selected” by other men. She wants the pride of knowing that she has a boyfriend that other girl’s desire.
c.) Women are turned on by confident, dominant men. I don’t mean men who boss them around or who are overly jealous or controlling. But she wants you to be assertive with her. She wants you always make the first move. She wants you bring out her sexual side. She wants you to take control and lead her.
d.) You also need to know how to talk to girls. Girls are extremely turned on by guys who know how to flirt with girls, make them laugh, tease them, and keep the conversation fun and playful. Women love flirting because it builds up sexual tension. And nothing turns a woman on more than sexual tension. Being able to talk to girls and flirt with girls will allow this sexual tension to grow until she can hardly take it anymore.
Most guys don’t know how to start a conversation with a girl, or talk to her in a way that makes her feel attraction to you. Most guys just wind up boring women.
I have coached enough guys to know that most guys will freeze up in front of a beautiful woman. Or, they will get so nervous that they come across as completely insecure and boring.
Girls expect a guy to be able to carry a conversation in a fun, flirty, and playful way. She wants you to be able to make her laugh, smile, and feel safe and secure around you.
In brief, the key to attracting a woman is to make her feel so much fun and excitement around you, while slowly letting the sexual tension build, and then being assertive enough to go in for the kiss at the exact moment she is waiting to be kissed.
To learn more, read this post on how to talk to women.
If you want to see a sample of some of things you need to learn read though “How to to get a girl to like you:Make Small Talk Sexy”
The last thing I want to leave you with is: No matter how intimidated you are by the thought of finally scoring with that girl you really like and desire… it’s not as hard as you think
Getting a girl to like you is all about understanding what she likes, and giving it to her. This is how to get a girl to like you.
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