How to Tell if a Girl Likes You (5 Fool Proof Signs to Look For)


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How to tell if a girl likes you

ChristinaHow many times have you been twenty minutes into a conversation with a woman … and asking yourself ‘Does she like me or is she just being polite?’

It would be so much easier if they just came right out and said it, wouldn’t it?

But they won’t.

It’s up to you, as a man, to take notice of the subtle signals a woman is giving you, and act accordingly.

It you don’t have your eyes wide open for these signals you may wind up in a dead end conversation with a girl who has no interest in you past the free drinks you’ve been feeding her…

Or even worse … you may wind up walking away from a girl who is practically jumping at the chance to follow you back to your place and tear your clothes off.

So what are these subtle signals you should be looking out for?  What are other way how to tell if a girl likes you?

Signs a woman might be interested?

All of the signs below, in isolation, don’t necessarily mean a woman is into you. But as you begin to see several of these signals of interest, you can be certain that, at the very least, you’ve got enough rapport to begin to escalate the conversation to a more intimate level.

1. She is laughing at your jokes, even when they’re not funny

If a girl is being the perfect audience, laughing on cue, egging you on to talk more, and has a big smiled plastered across her face the entire time you’re talking it is a pretty clear indication that she’s enjoying your company.

CoupleWhen we laugh at someone we unconsciously are saying “I like you. And I’m listening to what you’re saying.” And if she is going out of her way to make sure that she’s laughing … she is also going out of her way to encourage you to keep talking.

Just be careful not to confuse true laughter with an “oh my god get me out of here” grin or a nervous giggle.

2. She tells you to take a sip of her drink

This one has been an almost 100% indicator for me over the years that a woman was ready to be kissed.

If you’re at a bar talking to a woman, and she hands you her drink and says something like “Try my drink.” Or if she encourages you in any way to take a sip of her drink, she is unconsciously telling you that she is comfortable with you on a more intimate level.  This is a great “little known”  how to tell if a girl likes you.

3. She asks you if you have a girlfriend or pries for the information

When a woman is around a man that she is becoming attracted to, she will almost always try to find out if he has a girlfriend.

Most women will flat out ask.

If she doesn’t flat out ask, she’ll most likely ask questions that pry for the information like “Who do you live with?” Or if you just told a story about going on vacation or to a concert, she’ll say “Who did you go with?”

If a woman has no interest in you whatsoever, she very rarely will care whether or not you have a girlfriend.

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4. The Hi-Five Test

If you want to actively try to figure out if a woman is interested … here is a little test you can do that will help you gage the amount of interest a woman has.

LikesYou01As you’re talking to a woman, and she says something you like, give her a high five.

The key is that as you slap her hand sort of grip her fingers for a split second. Her reaction to this indicates her comfort level around you.

If she pulls her hand immediately away, or leaves her fingers limp, she probably still does not feel comfortable around you.

On the other hand, if she hold her hand there for a second, grips your fingers back, or sort of lets her hand slide against yours … it’s a pretty good indicator that you’ve developed a nice level of rapport with her.

5. She calls you a player

Strange right?

Most guys would assume that if a girl says “you’re such a player” that she is probably not interested.  But this is just one of those counter-intuitive things you figure out with enough time talking to women.

If a woman calls you a player, two things have already been accomplished. The first is that she has become comfortable enough around you to say that sort of thing. And the second, is that she views you as the sort of guy who is used to talking to women.

If a woman ever makes this sort of statement, simply view it as a “shit test” and go on with the conversation as usual. DO NOT defend yourself or try to prove to her that you aren’t. In fact, the best response is to just smile and say “Is it that obvious?” and proceed with the conversation as if it was never said.

There are various other “indicators of interest” that some dating gurus recommend looking out for such as body language, eye contact, and verbal cues. But when someone asks me “how to tell if a girl likes you” these are the 5 signals I recommend they look out for.

How to Tell if a Girl Likes You

Hope you enjoyed these tips on how to tell if a girl likes youOne thing I will say is that over analyzing the situation can actually cause her to lose interest in you.  This is because your insecurity about “making your move” is actually turning her off.  Rather than spend all day trying to figure out what she’s thinking, you’re much better off doing all the things that you know will attract a girl.

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The last thing I want to leave you with is: No matter how intimidated you are by the thought of finally scoring with that girl you really like and desire… it’s not as hard as you think.  How to tell if a girl likes you is easier than you think.

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About Bobby Rio

I'm Bobby Rio, one of the founders of TSB. I tend to write about what is on my mind so you'll find a mix of self development, social dynamics and dating articles/experiences.  For a collection of some of my favorite articles check them out.

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  1. j20

    March 20, 2013 at 4:05 pm

    Hi I go to college this girl I realy like I told her how I felt about her she’s becom more distant she says I’m a cute lad but I don’t now wat to do can anyone help me

    • Anonymous

      March 27, 2013 at 8:28 pm

      get to know her wait til the right time and ask her out

  2. Anamanous

    March 28, 2013 at 3:44 am

    I know my friend likes me, because we have 1.5-2.5 hour conversations every single night,and sends lots of (; in her text messages, and calls me a sweet person. I knew she liked me the first time she texted me, but just getting proof.

    • Anonymous

      June 26, 2013 at 2:41 pm

      CHOO CHOO!!!! Welcome aboard the friendzone train!

      same shit happened to me too, don’t get your hopes high mate…

  3. Anonymous

    April 18, 2013 at 12:05 am


  4. Jeff

    May 20, 2013 at 8:31 pm

    This helps to know if the girl likes you, but not if she loves you.

    The most common source of problems in relationships is that the couple misinterpreted their mutual feelings of attraction as love. This normally results in the couple trying to keep up appearances after about 5 years, and wondering where the love went.

    It is important to know that attraction is an emotional feeling that may fade, while love is a promise that has nothing to do with attraction. Love is a promise to do 4 things.
    1. To accept everything that you know and do not know about her now.
    2. To accept her regardless of what happens in the unknown future as you both age – for better or worse, richer or poorer, sickness or health for as long as you both shall live. Even if she is disfigured by an accident or crippled by illness, you accept her.
    3. To forgive her later. Since neither of you is perfect, you both depend on each others’ forgiveness.
    4. To encourage her to improve. This 4th one gives purpose to your relationship – otherwise it will get boring.

    If you are both ready to make and keep these promises to each-other, then you are ready to love. When you keep them, you demonstrate your love for each-other. After you formally make your promises at your wedding, you complete or consummate these promises with sexual intercourse. Every time that you subsequently have sexual intercourse, you reinforce your promises – it is truly a wonderful and mutually satisfying experience.

    If you have sexual intercourse before making your promises, then you show her that you are capable of justifying forsaking her for a younger, shapelier rival when she gets older. If you are able to restrain yourself when your attraction for her is at its highest, then you show her that you are capable of resisting the rival that will inevitably come.

    Source: Attraction is a feeling. Love is a Promise. by Grenville Phillips, president of Walbrent College. (

    • Anonymous

      February 3, 2015 at 1:04 pm

      Very welll said 🙂


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  6. J T King

    October 18, 2013 at 5:07 am

    The “creators” of this website or the guys in the video talk about women like they are animal. I am saying this as a man. Plz to all men who are real men, treat yourself and women with dignity and respect. Don’t sleep with random people. Wait until you have established a relationship based on love. Then the sex will have meaning more than just getting off. Women are to cherished not treated like disposable sex toys.

  7. Anonymous

    October 22, 2013 at 10:15 pm

    I hate the friend zone it sucks their

    • Anonymous

      April 3, 2015 at 10:46 pm

      Ya I wish I wasn’t there anymore and new if she does or not.

  8. durant

    January 13, 2014 at 1:45 am

    oh it really works

  9. ekoda

    May 16, 2014 at 2:54 am

    they ar 2girls that i love but i dnt no wht 2 tel them…I NEED SOMEONE TO ADVICE ME

  10. Jake Lorenzo

    June 10, 2014 at 9:11 pm

    Hi. I have liked this girl in my grade for a while now… And she makes fun of me a lot… Does this mean she does or doesn’t like me as a friend?

  11. Paige

    August 14, 2014 at 7:26 pm

    Excuse me but I’m a girl but none of this is true

    • Mark

      February 6, 2015 at 9:39 pm

      We’ll your and very experienced girl that is not conscious of your actions and body language then, because as a man that has been with quite a few women. In my experience it is very true! Especially the first 3!

      Guys these is why you can rarely take advice about dating from women because they are so clueless as to what they want, respond to, and what really going on. Notice she said girl and not woman as well. Women that have been around will know this is true.

  12. nick

    February 23, 2015 at 8:53 pm

    I get the girls all day long.

  13. Anonymous

    July 8, 2015 at 1:21 am

    hi, so theres this girl that is next to me in class because of assigned seats. so we have each others numbers previously because the teacher assigned us together in a group and she asked me for only my number instead of everyone else in the group project, so we can all meet up over the weekend to finish the project. So now, in the present, she is next to me in class for the rest of the year and always initiates conversations with me and also she texts me sometimes about the homework in that history class we have together. but she has friends in that class but she only texts me for the homework. After she answer about the homework, she continues the text conversation and changes the subject. so i know she has some kind of interest in me, but from these signs, can you guys please tell me if she likes me or not. By the way, when i tell her about any good news, she says, “Good job! High Five! it happened twice lately. One time, there was a history class competition, and i won, and she was on my team of 6, and she reach her hand over all the way, begging for a high five, and i gave her a high five.

  14. Anonymous

    July 8, 2015 at 1:32 am

    Hi, so can you guys please give me your thoughts and opinions on this, please no jokes and offensive comments, and please help me. I’m a freshmen in high school, and I’m 15, and so is this girl. There’s this girl in my history class, she’s very pretty, smart, and nice. We have each other’s numbers because she asked for my number only from our assigned group project of 6 people, so we can all meet up for the weekend, to finish the project, but we ended up completing in school. Then 2 months later, the teacher changed the seating rows, and assigned me next to her. Every now and then, she randomly talks to me during and after class, tells me personal things everyday in that class, and laughs to all my jokes, even if they aren’t funny. Recently, whenever i have good news to tell her, she says,”GREAT JOB!! THAT’S AWESOME!! HIGH FIVE!!” She always high fives me and she once stretched her arm and hand out to reach over to me literally, and ask for a high five after i won some silly game when i was on her team in a class game.

  15. Anonymous

    July 14, 2015 at 9:43 pm

    I’m Maxel,there is the girl i’m so fun of,takes her out on a date on several occasions,but she always makes me feel she is not in to me.How do i know she is into me?

  16. Pushkar

    November 19, 2015 at 9:48 am

    Hie there I just wanna know that if a girl likes me I m in college now and a girl constantly looks at me she don’t talk with me she only sees me.And on Facebook one girl also commented on her pic that to whom she is hugging than she replied that their is some guy but now he is not mine so what can I assume.

  17. losser

    November 29, 2015 at 8:47 am

    i have a girl in my class and i want to have **** with her but i am to afraid to do so… i have a crush on her. all i just want he is help so that i go through her radar and hit the goal that i am looking for a long time…..!

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