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I'm Bobby Rio, one of the founders of TSB. I tend to write about what is on my mind so you'll find a mix of self development, social dynamics and dating articles/experiences. I've recently compiled a book with over 177 free PUA Openers...It took me awhile to put this collection together. Also, I just released another free report on small talk called Small Talk Tactics.

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Text message has rapidly become the new way of communicating.   And it is clear that if a man wants to become successful with women he must know how to text message.  It is a simple skill, but mastering it is crucial for your early interactions with a woman.

The first, and most important thing you need to understand about text messaging is that all of the same “attraction building” techniques are still just as relevant when communicating over text. This means that you can quickly kill a woman’s interest by texting wrong in the same way that you could kill attraction by being a bad phone conversationalist. Below are some of the common ways you can kill a woman’s interest over text messages:

Common texting mistakes

The first thing you want to do is avoid some of these mistakes that diminish attraction in the woman you’re interacting with.

• Sending boring text messages like “How’s it going?”  or “What’s up?
• Always responding too quickly and seeming over eager
• Trying to have a conversation over text
• Letting the woman control the flow of texting (i.e. she always ends the back and forth flow)
• Trying too hard to get her approval

Text Flirting

Your first several interactions over text message should be light and flirtatious.  Your sole intention during the first few text messages should be to spark her interest and have her waiting for your next text.

The idea is to banter back and forth and leave the interaction on a high note, by either not responding  back, or by ending it with a text like “see you later…”. It is also important to express bits and pieces of your personality in these texts, and avoid being boring at all costs. Keep it light and fun, then jump into serious stuff, and then back to being light and fun.

During the first few text messages you are just trying to demonstrate that you know how to have fun and be social around women. Your text messages should always give off the impression that you live a fun and exciting life. This means you avoid saying things like “I’m bored,” or if she ask what you’re doing answering “Nothing really.”

Instead answer by being interesting, mysterious, and challenging.

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