How to Attract a Woman Fast
By: Bobby Rio
Part 1 (Understanding Attraction)
Most of us are never taught how to attract women. Since they don’t teach the skill of attracting women in school, many guys go through their entire lives without the ability to attract girls, or have a relationship with a woman he desires.
Many guys mistakenly believe that the only way to attract women is with money, looks, power or fame. But this is simply “lazy” thinking. As I know many men who have none of these, yet still have know exactly how to attract beautiful ladies.
Now in order to understand how to a woman, you first must understand what girls find attractive.
To answer this, let’s start in two steps.
What traits do women find attractive?
What traits turn ladies off?
This approach will help you gain some understanding of the woman’s mind. And how you have to act in order to attract a woman.
A. Women are extremely turned off by “weak” men. Women are biologically programmed to be attracted to strong, dominant, and “alpha” men. For this reason, displaying traits such as shyness, insecurity, neediness, or nervousness quickly make a woman lose attraction towards you. Women have an intuitive sense of when a man feels “inferior” to her. Women don’t want a man who feels he is below her.
B. Women are not attracted to men who display a lack of “social intelligence.” Social intelligence is basically an understanding of the how to act appropriately in social situations. If a guy lacks this understanding, a woman will not be able to image herself out with him in public. She will feel embarrassed to be with him. And this will decrease any attraction she may have initially felt for him.
C. One of the easiest ways to turn a woman off is to display weak body language. As stated earlier, women are not attracted to neediness, insecurity, or nervousness. So when you display body language or posture that demonstrates these type of traits you will turn a woman off.
D. While looks are not as important as most guys think. If you want to attract women, you can’t be completely apathetic towards your appearance. You need to show a woman that you take pride in the way you look. They don’t like men who appear to be lazy, sickly, or weak.
E. One of the easiest ways to turn a woman off is to show too much interest in her. This is a mistake that many guys make trying to attract women. This is counter-intuitive, and so guys never figure this out. But by showing too much interest, you eliminate the fun and chase of a romance… and the woman quickly becomes bores and loses interest.
By just understanding the traits and behaviors that turn women off, you are ahead of 90% of the men out there who will never be able to attract a woman.
A. One of the most overlooked ways to attract a beautiful woman is to just be “fun.” Since most guys get nervous or insecure around women, the rare guy who can allow a woman to relax and have fun around him is three steps ahead of the game. The quickest way to have fun with women is flirt with them, tease them, and be playful. Women are extremely attracted to guys who know how to talk to women in this fun, flirty, and playful way. These guys also have ability to make small talk sexy.
B. Girls are social creatures. And they want to be with a woman who knows how to act in social situation. Not only that, but they would prefer a man who takes on the role of leader when grouped with other men. Because of biological programming, an easy way to attract women is to seen as a leader by your peers. The more men a woman sees looking up to you… the more likely she will become attracted to you.
C. Girls are attracted to the “chase.” This is why it is important to always play push/pull with a woman. Push/pull means that you never let a woman 100% know that she has you. Instead, you show some interest, but then pull it away. Keep repeating this process. A beautiful woman is used to a man surrendering to her immediately. So the man that keeps her interests in the man who can attract beautiful women.
The ability to talk to women is crucial in attracted them. In my article on how to talk to women, I give some specific examples of things to say to attract women. Most guys don’t know how to talk to women. So the guy who does, becomes even more attractive to women.
Above I talked about what turns women on and how to attract women. In this article I’m going to give you some specific ways to attract a woman.
1. Any time you are in a group with other men, you should take on the role of “leader.” You should be the decisivedecision maker of the group. You should be the one that other men turn to for guidance.
2. Although looks are not as important as most guys think, it is still important to always present your best self. This means you should be well-groomed, fit, healthy looking, and make an effort to dress in a way that shows you have a high level of social intelligence.
3. You should present “alpha” body language and posture. This means take up space, walk with your head up high, shoulders back, and give off the appearance of being a man who knows where he is going in life.
4. You should be able to read the verbal cues a woman is giving you. Women are attracted to men who understand them, so if you want to attract a woman, pay attention to what her words, body, and subliminal signs are telling you.
5. Act assertive with women. Women want a guy who goes after what he wants. So if you feel like you want to kiss a woman that you’ve been talking to… do it. Don’t ever wait for a woman’s permission to kiss her. Women are attracted to men who take charge sexually.
6. Tease and flirt with women. One way to attract women fast is to flirt with her. There is something that turns women on by flirting.
7. Use things like “cold reads” to attract women. These sorts of techniques show a woman that you understand her, and that you are experienced with women.
8. Don’t be afraid to touch a woman physically. Human being are extremely attracted to the touch of other humans.
9. PUSH/PULL. Women like to chase a man. So when displaying your attraction, its always best to display a little bit of attraction, and then pull it away. Always leave a woman wondering how attracted you are to her.
10. Cocky and Funny. Women like a guy who is confident and fun. Most guys need to dial it up a little bit. This becomes cocky and funny. This means you sort of present an overly confident humor.
11. Get her to an emotional state. Another way to attract women is to get her feeling positive emotions around you. The easiest way to do this is to talk about topics that bring emotions out of woman. In fact, I’ve identified the four best topics for conversation.
12. Don’t hide your identity. Don’t be afraid to talk about whatever you’re passionate about.
13. If you must compliment a woman, if you want to know how to attract women with compliments, you need to understand that women are tired of hearing about how pretty they are. The best kind of compliments is compliments that involve unique things you see about her personality.
14. Another good to for attracting beautiful women is to use negs. Negs are a bit controversial but they involve giving a woman playful insults. The effect of this is that the woman doesn’t feel like she is above you anymore. This is a tactic best used to attract extremely beautiful women.
15. Be direct. Women like man who is not afraid to go after what he wants. So if you are sexually attracted to a woman, early on in the conversation you must make this clear. The best way to do this is make a reference to that lets her know this. For instance, you could say “that thing you did with your hair was just so fucking sexy.”
This should give you a fairly good idea on how to attract women. Like I said, the first thing a guy must do is come to the understanding that it is not just money, looks, and fame that attract women. It’s a combination of many different things, that all men are capable of doing.
Since talking to women is one of the hardest things for many men to do, I put together a free 27 page report that explains exactly how to talk to women in a fun, flirty, and sexual way. This report will do wonders for your ability to attract a woman.
Here is another article related to the subject: https://www.tsbmag.com/2018/03/07/1-powerful-trick-to-make-her-want-you/