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I don’t care how good the sex is…Â I don’t care if she’s the fuck of the century, DO NOT let “I love you” slip out of your mouth uless you really mean it and you are ready for a relationship with this girl.Â
Even if you mean and are ready for a relatioship I still wouldn’t say it until you absolutely have to.
For most of us “I love you” is something we feel for a few minutes before we come. But for girls its a whole lot different. There is no quick getaway if you blurted “I love you” to her. That bitch will hold you to it, and make you feel like the shit of the world for saying it and not meaning it. ”But you said you love me” is there favorite guilt device. You can never use my favorite “I never promised you anything” line when you want to end it. Saying “I love you” is a promise in her mind.
Not to mention that a real alpha male doesn’t blurt it out to a girl right away. I know guys that are telling a girl they love her after a few weeks. What kind of message do you think that sends the girl? “I have this guy” is what they’re thinking. You gave your hand away too soon.
Shit, I don’t say until I absolotuely have to, like during our first seriuous fight, or if she catches me cheating…
September 14, 2007
“I love you” definitely means more to women than it does guys. It really drives them nuts when they say it to you and you don’t say it back. It usually comes up more depending on how you define the relationship to her. I myself prefer open relationships and present them as that so usually I do not get hit with it. I would truly have to love a girl to tie myself down to a monogamous boyfriend/girlfriend relationship with her so it wouldn’t be an issue to me in that situation.
It’s casual,
Mack Tight
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September 14, 2007
I told an HB8 “I really like you” while we made out. Is that essentially the same thing? I did want a relationship with her at the time and she did pester me to walk her to her car after we finished. I ended up walking her to her car then I kissed her goodbye.
-Seraf
September 14, 2007
“I like you” isn’t the same thing… it definately isn’t as bad… but i wouldn’t say it that often to a girl.. my philosophy is to let her wonder.