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Guest Post By My Friend Sara: The Problem With Guys with Too Many Girl Friends

Posted July 24, 2019

So last week I wrote about the issue with girls with too many male friends. I mentioned that if I were a girl I wouldn’t trust a guy with too many female friends either. This ...

Kristens and Karas

Posted July 17, 2019

I had this thought the other day while trying to figure out what all the women I really get along with have in common. Besides alcoholism, Narcissism and sarcasm. Or the 3 ISMs as ...

On Approach Anxiety- Risk is Volatility NOT Loss.

Posted July 10, 2019

I read Howard Marks’ book “The Most Important Thing” a few weeks ago. The book is a collection of interoffice memos within Oaktree Financial (The company he and W ...

Shut the Fuck Up!!! or How to Use Silence Effectively

Posted July 3, 2019

Today I wanted to address something that is a big sticking point for most guys who are intermediate-advanced (myself and 99% of instructors included). You talk too goddamn muchR ...

The Used Car Salesman Frame

Posted June 26, 2019

One of the biggest problems I notice with my private coaching students, is an inability to be persistent enough especially in the early stage of an approach. It’s very common ...

The Right Mindset

Posted June 19, 2019

People often talk ask me what my mindset is about meeting girls, dating, pick up etc… So I figured I should write a post about what I believe to be the perfect mindset for ge ...

The Rejection Barrier

Posted June 12, 2019

One of the things I’ve realized recently is that every student has a certain number of rejections they can handle in a row before they mentally break. This is ironic because ...

Rating Yourself

Posted June 5, 2019

One of the things the pickup community and guys in general are known for is rating women on a 1-10 scale. In fact if you were to peruse the online communities or thousands of pages ...

A Primer on Asking Questions

Posted May 29, 2019

One of the biggest misunderstandings guys seem to have involving social skills is how and when to use questions. Back in the day when I got involved in the whole Secret Underground ...

Good Places To Meet Women Over The Weekend…

Posted May 22, 2019

There’s a lot of fun places you can meet women over the weekend, besides the usual bars and clubs. Here’s a list of my favorite places to meet women over the weekend. 1 ...