Perhaps We Shall Call It “InCubed”
Let me tell you about a little “attraction” formula that I’ve been working on a bit.
I call it: Factor of “In”
I’ll most likely add a few more things to it later on… but here’s the jist of it:
Interesting + Interested + Indifference ==> One helluva great start
Let me break it down a bit… because this might seem a little tricky. An maybe even a little counterintuitive…
Interesting.
In other words… you lead a life that people like to talk about. Maybe you have a “interesting” hobby… or maybe you have an “interesting” viewpoint on life. You march to the beat of your own drum… that’s for sure.
Interested.
Don’t confuse this with “neediness”. It’s more than okay to “be a man” and let the person that you’re talking to feel a connection brewing. Ask questions and create an “experience”. Have fun telling stories and making her laugh. Being truly “interested” in her life and what makes her tick helps increase “knowledge points” or things that you can talk about later… making you a great conversationalist that never runs out of things to discuss.
Indifference.
This doesn’t mean that you try to be some player “asshole”. No… really it just means that there’s no pressure from you to take things to any level. Being “” means that although you are “interested” in her… by no means does that mean that you have to have her. In fact, indifference generally stems from a confident man that knows… not thinks… but knows that he doesn’t have to put up with anything from any woman… because he knows that he can meet someone else in no time at all.
Being all 3 of these Factors of “In” naturally brings in a subtle “push-pull”.
The “Indifference” ==> Push
The “Interested” ==> Pull
Lay in a base of “Interesting”… and you’ll soon know the meeting of dating/seduction success.
(p.s. If you haven’t already, go check out the free video and Adonis Index calculator… and get a free two week sample of the Adonis Effect in the process…)
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August 7, 2008
Being interesting is definitely a big one for improving one’s game, what you gotta make sure of though is that you actually see yourself as interesting.
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August 7, 2008
Holy crap Mike- Bobby leaves the country for 1 day and look what you’ve done with the site! Step AWAY from the WordPress
I really dig this post because of the SIMPLICITY. I’m really starting to think that escalation (interest) with indifference to outcome is THE zen of pu.
August 7, 2008
You got it!
Don’t think it… KNOW that this is the case. Every ladies man that I know subconsciously knows and follows this “plan”…
It’s elegant… for sure… and a definite end game scenario for most.
If ALL you did was keep this in mind as you talked to women… you’d see a HUGE difference in response…
B
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August 7, 2008
@ID
Me and Pete the Freshman have been working like crazy on this new site! Are you telling me you don’t like it?
August 7, 2008
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August 7, 2008
nah man I’m just joshing because of the timing. Its different- nobody likes anything when it changes- I’ll let you in a week what I think- the skin definitely needed a change though. This is more subtle and now actually looks like something I can read at work
August 7, 2008
Nice post bro!
Now I’m gonna go smoke some more weed!
August 7, 2008
@Brad
Thanks Man! I’m glad you like it. Some more tweaks are being added, but I feel it was a good change and a nice launch. We’ll write a post about it and the new features soon.
The mobile site is up again btw…
August 7, 2008
GODDANM! It’s about time! I REALLY liked the mobile site ability and I’m glad it’s back up
Good shit with the site upgrade. It looks a lot better…more quality for sure!
August 7, 2008
This is a weird analogy but this article reminded me of my friend that always tries to pick up strippers. (for some reason he doesn’t try it on “normal” girls)
He’ll throw some outlandish shit about how hot she is and how hot she is and that she should come home with him…and then if she declines his attitude is like, “so what. there are a bunch of other strippers here!”
Weird how the mindset of stripper vs. “normal girl” gets him going….regardless it is definitely some advice I will be using tonight!
Cheers!