Free Course: Eliminate Your Inner “Nice Guy” and Pass Girl’s Secret Tests

Is She Playing Dumb, or Is She Actually Dumb?

A friend of mine was once asked out by a guy who she just wasn’t interested in (of course, that didn’t stop her from flirting with him). He said, “Do you want to go out?” and she replied with “Where?”, pretending she didn’t understand the implication. This, thankfully, caused him to lose his nerve and tell her not to worry about it.

Play acting or reality?

He later tried again, only to be turned down properly. Poor thing – that has to have been one of the most cringe-worthy experiences of his life, and he could have avoided the final part of his humiliation had he realized she was just playing dumb.

Sometimes, women find, it’s easier to just pretend not to get something, if they are reluctant and not sure how to say no, or don’t want to field more questions. On the other hand, there are a lot of idiots out there, and in some cases it’s not an act.

When ‘”I don’t know what you’re talking about!” means “no”

Generally, if she is just gives a dumb response to suggestive things you say, she is doing so as a way of avoidance. Like the friend I mentioned earlier, she doesn’t want to have to let you down, or deal with the awkwardness of doing so. You may not be sure if she simply didn’t understand you the first time, so if you’re game you could try again.

If she pulls the same trick, then she’s sending you very strong signals that she’s not interested, or it’s too soon for her liking, or she really is dumb. Either way, you’re not getting anywhere with her. If she goes along with your suggestion the second time, she probably actually didn’t understand you the first time.

If you don’t want to put your dignity on the line by repeating yourself, you may never find out whether she was faking stupid or not. Even if you get to know her and she is quite smart, you can’t discount the possibility that she just slipped up. Although, for your ego’s sake, you may not want to know whether she was playing dumb or not.

Should you be worried she’s playing dumb?

Yes, you probably should be worried she is playing dumb.It often means she’s not interested, but is not confident enough to say so. But, as always, there’s the exception. Perhaps she is playing up to the bimbo stereotype as a way of seeming interesting. There are endless films depicting the role of the “hot bimbo” and celebrities who use this stereotype as a magic carpet to fame- think Paris Hilton, Jessica Simpson and Megan Fox, to name a few. If you suspect that the flirtatious bimbo is not really a bimbo at all, and is acting like one to impress you, test out your hunch by treating her as if she is intelligent and trying to engage in a meaningful conversation with her. You’ll soon find out how stupid she actually is.

img

Simple Trick Tells You if a Girl Wants You to Kiss Her

Do girls leave you confused as to whether or not they like you?

Let's face it. Girl's don't make it easy for you. She will often send mixed signals leaving you unable to tell if she is being friendly or flirty. If you read her signals wrong you risk rejection and embarrassment. Or worse, you blow it with a girl who wanted to kiss you.

Here is a simple and innocent move that will instantly tell you if you're in the friend zone, or if she's waiting for you to kiss her.

img  We respect your email privacy

img

About Natasha Abrahams Natasha Abrahams is a writer and journalism student from Melbourne, Australia. When she is not busy with being a principal writer on Weekendnotes or skipping lectures, she can be found emptying her wallet at the nearest shopping centre. You can read more from Natasha at: http://mensstyleandfashion.com/

text
Eliminate Your Inner
"Nice Guy" & Pass Women's Secret Tests

img

This free training course shows you how to finally break free of your “nice guy” habits ruining your sex life.

Fill out form below to start your FREE Course

Enter your email for a chance!

100% Privacy. I will never spam you!

Join the Community img

Join over 84,012 other “Anti Nice Guys” in the TSB Magazine Facebook community.

Join The Community

View Free Videos img

Discover the "Innocent Trick" That Reveals What a Girl Thinks About You...

ytimg

View Free Video

img
x