What is the Best E-book Available?
Guys are constantly emailing asking what my opinion is on a great ebook to start their education with. It is a tough question to answer for a variety of reasons.
1. It depends on what you’re after. If your goal is to pickup women in bars my answer would be different than if you were looking for a soul mate.
2. There are constantly new ebooks being written. I am long past the point of reading these books. I only read “review copies” that authors send me to review on this site. So when I speak of the best ebooks, I am only talking of the books I personally have read and learned from. If you have any ebooks you’d like to recommend leave a comment.
3. Are you truly dedicated to learning this? If the answer is no, then don’t waste your money on an expensive ebook. E-books are indeed expensive. There are hundreds of books on Amazon for a lot less money. But… I’ve found that the BEST information is usually found in an ebook. Hardcover books are more mainstream. Ebooks are meant for the community. They are expensive though… so I would not waste my money on one unless you are serious about improving your game.
4. Are you someone who learns more from reading or listening. Personally I get more out of a book then an audio course but everyone is different. In a few days I will write a post on the best audio courses for those of you who prefer CDs to books.
That being said…. Here are the ebooks that I learned from (and i must say they did a damn good job of teaching me 🙂
Magic Bullets (formerly the Venusian Arts Handbook) this is the holy grail of ebooks for guys looking to learn the Mystery Method. If you want to improve your game in bars and clubs then there is no better book to read than this. It teaches all of the essentials. You’ll learn openers, routines, gambits, neg theory, peacocking, comfort building, IOIs, phase transitions, and so much more) This is the most expensive ebook out there. So it takes a dedicated person to shell out the money for this one. But if you are truly committed you won’t be dissapointed. The great thing about this book is that it gives you ammunition to go out and use immediately. It is very motivating. learn more
Double Your Dating is the ebook I usually recommend to guys looking to change their attitude to enable them to date girls that were previously out of their league. You won’t get the club/bar ammunition you get from Magic Bullets but you will get the best advice out there on how to change your attitude to that of the alpha male. This is a cheap $20 ebook that is excellent for guys who can’t figure out what they are doing wrong with girls. This is more for the guy looking to score a girl in his social circle or for the guy who gets the girls to go out with him, but blows it on the date. This was the first ebook I bought and it opened up my eyes to a lot of my mistakes. learn more
The Art of Approaching is the what I recommend to guys who write me asking for a list of openers. This book is all about opening. If you are already good at opening, don’t waste your money on this book. If opening is your problem (like it was mine) than this book will give you everything you need to go out and immediately open sets. Word for word examples. Instructions on how to create your own openers. This book is a gold mine for those with approach anxiety. learn more
Honorable mention goes to the following ebooks… These are great ebooks, but I read these as review copies. I had already learned a great deal by this point so I can’t be honest in how much I learned from these books. But I gave all of them high marks for their content!
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About Bobby Rio I'm Bobby Rio, one of the founders of TSB. I tend to write about what is on my mind so you'll find a mix of self development, social dynamics and dating articles/experiences. For a collection of some of my favorite articles check them out.